Sorry for posting on this site but am doing so as many of my family and friends are on other forums and I need to rant! ??
It’s my first time ever writing anything like this so I’m not sure I’m posting in the right area?? I’m just so angry and upset!
So my partner and I are currently living in a flat with our 2 children - 4years and 8 months. The flat is joined to his parents house but we have our own front door so it’s an ideal situation while we are saving for a deposit. I am of course very appreciative of this!
But the problem is, they are obsessed with our oldest daughter! And when I say obsessed I mean right from birth they've been absolutely besotted with her - which was lovely in the beginning but now it’s getting majorly out of hand!!
For example they love to go on foreign holidays every school break, and they’ve taken our daughter with them numerous times. Bearing in mind she’s only 4, one particular time recently I said I’d prefer them not to take her with them this time round as I miss her a great deal and thought the holidays were getting a bit too much especially as we haven’t been able to afford a holiday abroad yet while saving! (I tried to be polite as possible)
What do I see a few days later? A holiday confirmation of a holiday booked for themselves and my daughter without even asking me!
They persuaded me to let her go which I ultimately did.
A few weeks pass and I go and collect her from there house as they’d taken her for out for lunch. I say it’s time for her to go home when she has the biggest tantrum I’ve ever seen, kicking out and screaming, I go to pick her up and I start to get tuts and comments from them both saying ‘You can’t do that!’ ‘Awww!’ ‘Leave her here!’
Not one bit of support from them telling her to respect her mum, right infront of her!
I’m finding this so upsetting, I feel like I’m losing my own baby!! To make matters worse they don’t look at my 8 month old ? breaks my heart!
I know I need to be way more assertive I just need some advice on how to go about things especially as we live practically underneath them for the time being!
Thanks so much in advance!
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