we've had our almost 10 year old GD for half of every week since she was 15 months old.Her parents split and her dad who took the split really badly (he was cheated on) asked if he could come home . He organised shared access with his ex He was here until last year when he moved in with a new partner ,a lovely girl and we decided that the wee one should continue staying with us until she wanted to move into Dads new flat .She thinks of this as home and to be honest she feels just like one of mine .I love having her ,we take and collect her from school 15 miles away on two days and collect her for the weekend on Fridays when she spends time at dads and comes back to us on Sunday evening for the school run on Monday .Its a routine we're used to.By the time my OH gets back from the school run I've done my exercise routine and am ready for work ,I only work part time now I'm 65 .Things may change when the new baby arrives later in the year ,wee madam might decide to live with them ,its her choice we wont make her choose .We also help with my daughters three as she has health issues ,sometimes its manic here but its always fun
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