I was co parenting my eldest DGS with youngest DD in my home for 7 years (he is now 9) and like Stella1949 was doing all the second mum stuff, bed times, baths, shopping for clothes, nursery, and school runs, doctors appointments etc! The head of his school PTA was under the misapprehension that I was his mother for over a year when he started because I was doing drop off on way to work every day!
I am now actively involved with child care for all the DGC of my 3 DD (so 6 DGC in all) this means watching them in holidays some of the time, entertaining them for their parents to have time to get other chores done, assisting with school runs and taking all of them to various activities.
I am currently off sick from my job so am available in the day times, and tend to be asked to take the 2 year old out quite a bit as his mum also has an 8 month old.
I love all my DGC but must confess that I find the child care very, very exhausting probably more so since my illness and I had a major op last year too. However like others I know how quickly tiny ones grow up and am keen to have the best relationship I can with them ahead of the teen years. I am very very close to eldest DGS still because of the 7 years I helped to bring him up, and I can’t see that changing. I have a different (but just as special ) relationship with his 2 siblings and 3 cousins.
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