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What should Great Grandparents be called?

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millie58 Wed 13-May-20 07:11:21

When my children were young, my husband's parents referred to my husband's Nan as Great Nan when in discussion with my children and they were known as Nan & Grandad.
Now that I am a Grandparent myself, they refer to themselves as Nan & Grandad as well. I have a bad relationship with them and am unsure whether this is just clouding my thought on this matter or whether this is quite normal? Please help!

RomyP Wed 13-May-20 12:48:54

We're Nana and Papa, grandson's other grandparents are Granny and Granddad, husband's dad is called Granda, the name he was called by our children, he's been called it for best part of 40 years so it seems normal to continue it. I think we can be too formal cos of how it was in the old days, provided everyone has different name, one that we as individuals like, so children don't get confused I think that's all that matters.

Foxyferret Wed 13-May-20 12:52:21

I am Nanny and my mother is Nanny Dot or Nanny by the sea. (She lives in Hemsby).

Tickledpink Wed 13-May-20 12:54:02

My grandson knows my parents as Grandma and Grandpa

Davida1968 Wed 13-May-20 13:04:21

I am known as Grandma (first name) and my mum is also Grandma (first name). That keeps it simple for everyone.

Nanna58 Wed 13-May-20 13:51:40

My 4yr old grandson has always referred to my mum as Great Big Nanny, pronounced properly now, but used to be “ Greybinanny” When we were all together ( oh, those wonderful days! ) he would differentiate by calling me ‘ Tiny Nanny’ although I was just Nanny if on my own. As I’m 5’9” and hovering aroun 12 stone God I loved him for that!!!

glammanana Wed 13-May-20 13:56:49

I'm nana to my DGCs and to my GGCs my lovely husband was always called Pops by my ACs and grandchildren alike.

Daisyboots Wed 13-May-20 13:57:10

My grandchildren called my mother Nana Elizabeth and me just Nana. Although now grown up most if not all call me Nan. Now I have 8 greatgrandchildren I am Nana Daisy to them. Just decide what you want to be called and don't worry about anyone else.

Joesoap Wed 13-May-20 14:17:27

My friends Great grandchildren call her G Gran
In the country where we live its simple the paternal grandmother is simply Farmor ie, Fathers Mother
On the maternal side it is Mormor ie. Mothers Mother nothing complicated

ann678tifney Wed 13-May-20 14:34:22

I am gran to my older Grandchildren. My daughter fosters and the foster children have always called me Grannie Annie, and this has continued with the great grandchildren and youngest grandchild. My husband is just Grandad Johnnie to everyone lol

TrendyNannie6 Wed 13-May-20 14:37:15

You should be called what ever you want to be known as Millie58 what would you like to be called

Bibbity Wed 13-May-20 14:58:29

What’s the relationship like between your child (the parents) and the Great Grandparents of the baby?

Madammim1 Wed 13-May-20 15:11:36

My grandkids call me little nanny if we are with my parents if not it's just nanny my partner is big willbob and my ex husband is grandad ,they call my parents big nanny and grandad grrr .

Laurensnan Wed 13-May-20 15:32:14

We are nanny and granddad to our grandchildren. My mum and dad are their nana and grandpa. When my children were young they had nanny and granddad and then there was great-nan and great-granddad.

AJKW Wed 13-May-20 15:41:11

Im called Granny, my mum is called Grandma, my son in laws mum is called Nana.

Annaram1 Wed 13-May-20 16:22:39

Prince George calls the Queen Gangan.

Forestflame Wed 13-May-20 16:53:28

My late mother was called Grandnan by her Great grandchildren

Deedaa Wed 13-May-20 17:50:40

My short answer would be "Very Old" but I expect I've been cooped up too long grin only one of my grandsons got to know his great grandmother and he just called her Great Granny.

harrigran Wed 13-May-20 18:53:07

My DC's great grandmother was called little nana because she was little.

Conners12 Wed 13-May-20 19:06:15

I am Ama to my grandchildren and my Mum is called Grams, she is 93. My children call me Marge, my name is Jo. Names should evolve within families.

alchemilla Wed 13-May-20 19:48:36

Doesn't one or more of the nordic languages have this fairly sussed? You are farmor or farfar (if you are the paternal grandparents) or mormor or morfar if the maternal. Then they tag on aeldre for the next generation or stor for the front. So, Swedish speakers, how do you distinguish at that level between potentially eight people?

Quite frankly I'd prefer to be called by my first name.

JTelles7 Wed 13-May-20 19:56:54

Great Granma/ Great Granpa is so uncontroversial and everyone should be happy

agnurse Wed 13-May-20 20:02:43

I only had one set of living great-grandparents when I was a child. We called them Opa and Oma (German for Grandpa and Grandma; they were of German abstraction), which is the same as what Mum and her siblings and cousins called them. Both sets of our grandparents were Grandma and Grandpa.

Until recently, my kid had a great-great-grandmother. (Seriously. This was my kid's maternal grandfather's maternal grandmother. She lived to be 103.) My kid just knew her as Granny.

HurdyGurdy Wed 13-May-20 20:46:27

My granddaughter only has one great grandparent (husband's mother) and she calls her Gran-nan

Vicky56 Wed 13-May-20 22:39:03

The relationship is more important than the names.
I concentrate on my relationship with my grandkids and let them choose what they want to call me.

Happysexagenarian Wed 13-May-20 23:09:29

Three of our grandchildren call their great-grandmother Nana Gran which I think is rather nice.