I’ve bought my son (also v heavy handed) gamer headphones with a built in microphone from Game (assuming you’re U.K. based here). They were a bit more expensive at about £30, however they have a replacement policy on them so that if they get broken they are replaced. They look like the big padded sort of headphones rather than earbud things. Like you’re daughter I was fed up replacing the cheaper ones and these seem to have done the trick.
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.