My ds and wife have separated, divorce etc ongoing. 4 Yr old gs and gd due October. Dil works p/t, her mother looks after gs. Ds is now getting access as were we. When gs was taken home after visit, Dil asked, several times, did gs behave, did he speak. We assured her he did behave and yes he spoke, not really thinking anything odd. Ds had first overnight stay yesterday with gs. Gs got upset as he weed on his leg whilst talking and wet his pants. He was crying, sobbing, and said to ds that his mummy shouted at him and he was scared. Ds got gs all sorted, lots of cuddles etc, gs calmed down.
I'm worried. My relationship with Dil is non existant but dh is trying to keep communication ongoing, he has tried mediation, need to go back 😩 my worry is the shouting and my gs feeling scared. I fully appreciate Dil is stressed, baby is small, she is to be induced at 37 weeks, but am concerned for both children and Dil mental health. Very unsure if what to do, how to advise ds, whole situation is a mess. Have tried to keep this post short and to the point!!
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