Iake this to court or rather your DS should.
Even if the worst outcome was to happen your DGS will grow up and be able to see that his father fought to see him
plus there is a good chance that DIL might see sense and agree to joint parent
If her life is chaotic she might also find it better for her to work with your son for childcare.
Don't give up and remain as loving.
Does Dil oppose you seeing our DGS ? I hope you can even if it is not very often you can build with this.
Just do not express any anger towards Dil
Our Welfare State. Is it broken?
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