I can see why you aren’t in love with this lady but throughout your post you call her ‘that woman’ she may be a lady with mental health problems but she is still a person and the mother of your grandkids She probably is very scared and unable to control her behaviour but far too worried to seek help
If your son has been in a relationship with this lady for 13 years and had two children well spaced apart things must have been alright for a long time
Is the grandsons diagnosis of depression a formal one ? Many 10 years old prefer to stay in their room especially if there is a ruckus going on in the house if he’s getting bullied at school surely he needs a father to sort it out
A 3 year old won’t be displaying bi polar, her behaviour may be completely normal for a three year old girl wanting attention
Who is doing this diagnosing
It sounds as if your son needs to up his game can’t he take the boy out and do things with him on a regular basis instead of letting him sit alone in his room
If he’s put up with this behaviour for 13 years which is a long time what has tipped him over to leave the sinking ship wouldn’t it have been better for him to stay while the kids are small
How do you acknowledge Easter.
Mothers Day - interested in opinions