I understand you enjoy seeing your grandkids and all would be fine if the older one had an attitude like the younger one.
But she doesn't. And after all, the visitation is with her father, not father and grandmother.
I do get the point about not letting a child be rude and run the house but this situation also seems to have deeper issues going on than that as well.
If it was me, I think I'd just try to make myself scarce during the visits and see if it sorts itself out. Maybe try again in six months or so.
Just how much taxpayers money have the Tories wasted
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