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Wondered whether it's ok

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Bungle Sun 14-Nov-21 14:18:52

Hi there, just wondered what people thought of this issue.
I have my granddaughter whose 2.5 on Mondays and Thursday. My daughter's on mat leave as she recently had another baby 8 weeks ago. I still have my GC so she has a break.
This Monday is my daughter's birthday and her husband has taken day off to celebrate her birthday. His taking her and baby out for the day just garden places and lunch etc. His not included my older grand daughter and actually asked me to pick her up earlier.
I was quite surprised as I feel she's being excluded. I didn't want to cause upset so just said I thought they'd all be spending the day together but was free to pick her up . To which he just said that would be great.
I felt quite upset as I don't understand how they won't want her to be included in her mum's birthday celebrations. Am I being over sensitive

MissAdventure Wed 17-Nov-21 23:16:20

Hysterical?? grin

Teacheranne Wed 17-Nov-21 23:17:30

Gosh, I must have been an awful mother for leaving my children with my parents for a week while hubby and I went skiing! First it was just eldest son, when aged 6 months, 18 months and 2 1/2. Then it was son aged 3 1/2 and daughter aged 6 months. The following year my parents drew the line at having another baby so we took the 4 year old with us and left the other two babies. And to add to the horror, our 4 year old went to ski school every morning!

We did then have a couple of years without skiing until all three children were old enough to come with us but my parents would still have been willing to have them stay with them two at a time. My parents were only in their 50s so fit enough to enjoy running around after young children and my brother and sister were around to help out.

I don’t see anything wrong with enjoying time with just one child, my eldest some was often taken out on his own while the babies were at home to give him some special attention.

MissAdventure Wed 17-Nov-21 23:20:01

Oh do stop it.
I'm about to start screaming and pulling at my hair, I'm so hysterical
grin