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This post needs to be read in conjunction with Jaydee Tas's post Where do I draw the line to understand this family situation.
Not a straightforward one, and my sympathies are with her partner.
You are right, it has been tough.
I was interested to read your sympathies are with my partner.. I want to be really clear here.. I don't do anything unless my partner agrees.. If I am asked to have my GS, I always discuss it with him first. Like tonight. It didn't suit my partner so I said no.
If I didn't care about his thoughts and feelings, I wouldn't have posted on here asking for advice..
If I misinterpreted your message, I apologise.