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Flaxseed Thu 06-Apr-23 18:49:55

My daughter, her DP and my 2 DGS are currently on holiday in Tenerife. Thankfully they are with her in laws, BIL & SIL
Yesterday the boys were all kicking a ball about and it came towards DGS (age 5) where he reached out to stop it with his hand, fracturing his wrist. sad
At first DD thought it was just sprained as there was no obvious malformation but they took him to the hospital today where an X-ray confirmed a fracture. He is currently in a cast awaiting surgery to manipulate it back into position tomorrow.
It’s been awful today as DD has been upset and I am so far away sad, she’s had to liaise with the insurance company and get stuff taxied from the resort to the hospital.
I work in a hospital and am convinced they won’t look after him properly hmm
(nothing to indicate this - it’s just me panicking)
He’ll be nil by mouth from midnight and I am just praying he gets done first thing tomorrow.

Honestly, I can’t believe how stressed I feel. I just need to offload
blush

Hithere Fri 07-Apr-23 12:39:03

Great news!

Sueki44 Fri 07-Apr-23 12:58:07

I hope that you can relax a bit more for the rest of the Easter break!💐He’s obviously in good hands

Madgran77 Fri 07-Apr-23 13:01:53

I broke my wrist, a very bad double break, when on holiday in Spain. The care I was given was superb! Hope it helps to hear that flowers

Madgran77 Fri 07-Apr-23 13:02:46

Sorry ...missed your update. Glad all is well

Aveline Fri 07-Apr-23 13:06:33

So glad to hear the wee lads OK. What a fright for you all though.

dogsmother Fri 07-Apr-23 14:59:35

💐💞 Faxseed,

Jaxjacky Fri 07-Apr-23 15:08:03

BlueBelle my
son flew home with a cast, no problem.

Franbern Fri 07-Apr-23 15:25:41

Cannot think any operating theatre in UK hospital would permit parents in whilst anaestising child.

Children do occasionally break something, they recover very quickly and can enjoy the extra attention they get Would the OP be just as worried and distressed if it had happened in UK? It is sad to say, that these days, much medical treatment is better and speedier in other countries

A broken wrist is not life threatening, and having been properly treated so promptly should make a total recovery. Best wishes to all concerned and hopes that this will be the worst medical emergency this lad will ever have.

62Granny Fri 07-Apr-23 15:36:42

You work in a hospital over here, be honest with yourself would be have been seen by now if it had happened over here? The way A&E dept are are at the moment probably not. He is in hospital being sorted out and your daughter has plenty of family around her for support.

Flaxseed Fri 07-Apr-23 16:17:02

Bluebelle

The hospital I work in has had parents in with children for almost as long as I can remember! (And I have had a long career!)
Granted most parents break down but once they have left the anaesthetic room.
There are lots of things that seem a bit old fashioned about the whole experience, but we are not going to focus on that.
He’s fixed and they are on their way back to the resort. He has a ‘backslab’ plaster so can fly.
I am so grateful for your kind words and hand holds. Thank you so much smile

Flaxseed Fri 07-Apr-23 16:59:43

62Granny
From my experience working in an operating theatre, yes, he would have been seen and probably operated on by now over here. Children are prioritised, as are fractures. The NHS, whilst crumbling in front of us all (sadly) is pretty good for things like this.

Franbern. Believe me - they do. And parents also pick children up from the recovery room with the nurse. It might have ‘only’ been a broken wrist, but it was pretty traumatising all the same. No, I would not have worried as much had he been over here as I have confidence in my fellow theatre staff. I was scared of the unknown.
Yes, they were efficient and fixed my boy over there, but still seem quite backward in some areas. The distance between us all has what has been so difficult.

Anyway, he’s back at the resort now and hopefully the rest of the stay will be uneventful grin

Ali08 Mon 17-Apr-23 20:47:08

Flaxseed
How is your DGS now?

LOUISA1523 Mon 17-Apr-23 22:02:37

Franbern

Cannot think any operating theatre in UK hospital would permit parents in whilst anaestising child.

Children do occasionally break something, they recover very quickly and can enjoy the extra attention they get Would the OP be just as worried and distressed if it had happened in UK? It is sad to say, that these days, much medical treatment is better and speedier in other countries

A broken wrist is not life threatening, and having been properly treated so promptly should make a total recovery. Best wishes to all concerned and hopes that this will be the worst medical emergency this lad will ever have.

Don't know any units these days, where parents would not be allowed....its been common place for years for parents to stay with their child until they are fully under....my DD had an OP 23 years ago and her Dad went down to theatre with her to the anaesthetic room .