Me thinks that's a No IMO.. . 4 days you will have the baby more than the parents.
By all means help but from friends experience and including myself 4 days is too much.
You need to maintain your job that's income and self worth. Your illness as well can lead to bad days with a baby there, more stress.
My friend does 3 days and she regrets it. Also it has put her relationship with her daughter on rocky ground, with her daughter wanting things done her way, and the Grandma not complying to these exact rules.
I look after my grandson from 3.30 - 6 pm and 10 - 6pm over 2 days that's enough for me as I also work 2 days a week. Luckily Grandad is around he was a godsend when I got my Hip replacement last year.
You need to have a frank conversation with your daughter, see what you can sort and support.
Good luck
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