Age to leave babyhood behind?

Apparently by 2021 the average age at which children were out of nappies had gone up to 3.5 years from 2.5. Can’t find more up to date info. Reasons given include comfier nappies, and busy parents. As if previous generations weren’t! Thinking of my grandma with 6 small children. Have just been reading an article which suggests that late toilet training is not so good after all, so perhaps the pendulum is swinging back? Awful to hear that nappies need to be changed at school. Not great for the environment either with all those nappies.

About 20 years ago my daughter was a school nursery teacher children age 4/5 she was shocked at how many children wore nappies or pull ups had a dummy and sucked it all day if allowed. Had no idea about table manners some even sat on the floor to eat and some little girls didn’t wear any knickers and when they needed to go they went no matter where they were. Nothing new under the sun when along with her two assistants she tried to teach the basics angry mothers screamed abuse. She left after 2 years and went into the funeral business at least there her residents were quiet and peaceful.

My dgd was still have breast feeds on request at age 3. He did have a normal diet.

At one time children could not be accepted at a State nursery unless potty trained, unless they were less able.
Is it just a nappy at night?

That rule disappeared years ago, more's the pity.

A bottle? I'm not sure, perhaps one at bedtime is ok as a comfort thing, if he's eating well and can drink from a cup during the day.

Oh dear.
I can’t imagine a Nursery accepting this child but maybe it’s the norm now?

It seems to be acceptable today. I understand why you’re concerned.

Good grief. Does he eat solids? Has there been no attempt at potty training?