First off, I can not afford a lawyer, but I want to tell you a bit of my story.
For years my daughter has been lying about us, lying to us, using our grandsons as pawns, and getting her friends to threaten us via facebook. Except for the time she made a threat to her dad, a disabled Vet, via text message.
The last time we saw her, she got upset that we wouldn’t buy the stuff she was picking out for the new baby. She was 7 months pregnant at the time, and the stuff she was picking out to us, was way past ugly. We wanted to pick things for the baby ourselves, and not be told what to pick.
After that we met up at a Subway, we offered to buy her lunch, but she declined. She spent 30 minutes telling us how our car wasn’t good enough, our apartment wasn’t good enough, where we where thinking about moving to wasn’t good enough, and just how we where not good enough.
When we walked out I stood by my car and lite a cigarette. She got into her car, parked about 75 feet or more from me, started to leaved, circled back parking over 100 feet away, and saying she had new pictures of the kids she wanted us to see but ordered me to put my smoke out because I was to close to her, and to wash my hands. I told her, or tried to, I wasn’t near her. She then started cussing me and I snapped. I told her I was 53 years old, and she shouldn’t be bossing me around. Her reply was I had to do what she said because she was the mother of my grandkids. She just kept on going and I told her to STFU [shut the f**k up] She then pulled out of the parking lot, went straight to facebook, and started posting how I abused her while shes pregnant. THAT IS A LIE.
I have been putting up signs about how I love my grandsons, she finds them and rips them down. I put post about it on craigslist, she finds them and flags them, and has her friends/family send threats.
Our daughter works for the state of NC at a home/medical care place for mentally handicapped adults. Over a year ago she admitted to giving her kids serotonin to make them sleep so she wouldn’t have to deal with them, and because it cant show up in blood test. I reported her more than once to CPS, and nothing was done.
Her ex husband, father of the first 2, is a felon, he has sex with mental patients at the hospital he worked at, got caught with one, arrested and 90 or less days in jail..he lives with his parents who blamed our daughter for his actions. He talks bad about her, to the kids, she talks bad about him to the kids. My oldest grandson is a nervous wreck, and his father and other grandfather allow him to shoot guns. Hes told me he cant take it anymore..he told me that 5 months ago..and that he wants to shoot them to shut them up!!
Her now husband is into the dark arts, according to her, so my grandsons are being raised by borderline Satanist. I wish I had the money to hire a P.I. to get the proof I need so I could tell her, straighten up, or I turn this over to your employer, the county and state CPS, and anyone else I could.
Could you suggest what I can do? Don’t say report her..been there…tried that..didn’t work. Also, no I do not want custody of my grandkids..I want my kid to grow up and stop the BS
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