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Gransnet cafe

Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

Welcome to new members

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 16-Sept-15 14:24:57

If you're new to Gransnet please do make yourself a brew and come introduce yourself on this thread. Hope you enjoy chatting in the forums and that you find it useful, informative, supportive and entertaining. smile

Lindill49 Mon 31-Oct-16 14:33:23

Thanks Shysal - can't find anything on my mobile. I'll try on the desktop.

jordana Wed 02-Nov-16 10:53:43

Hi everyone, I recently joined and have posted too. Very interesting g topics and I can now know what to do in the wee small hours when I can't sleep. Someone said it can be addictive which I can relate to as you like to see what's been added to a post you are in! I am 71 does anyone know the average age of the members?

shysal Wed 02-Nov-16 15:15:43

Hello and welcome jordana flowers. I would guess you are around the average age, but I don't know.

proudnan Wed 02-Nov-16 18:41:15

Hi all I joined today after reading some posts though it would be nice to have somewhere to be able to pick up tips from more experienced members being a fairly new grandparent with another due in February.

shysal Wed 02-Nov-16 19:17:53

Hi proudnan, welcome flowers. Enjoy grandparenthood! If you are looking for tips try under 'grandparenting' on the banner below the GN logo. I think the main lesson learnt by many has been to try not to interfere or say 'in my day'! smile

Rinouchka Fri 04-Nov-16 08:41:56

I joined a couple of years ago but have only begun posting in the past month or so.

Am blown over by the sheer number of posts! Have sifted through what might be of interest, but realised that, without opening a thread, you don't always know what that might be as "gems" can be hidden within threads.

How do seasoned GNetters stay active online but not spend most of the day on it!!??
How do others ration themselves? Fifteen minutes per morning/night, etc? It takes me that long to read through threads of more than 3 pages!

shysal Fri 04-Nov-16 08:54:36

Glad you have started to join in Rinouchka flowers. Unfortunately GN can be a great time waster! Do you use the bookmarking facility? (Click on 'customise' below page number) This avoids spending time looking for where you left off reading a thread. I limit my time by avoiding Religion and Politics!, and 'watch' any of particular interest or that I started.

Rinouchka Fri 04-Nov-16 09:20:54

Great advice, shysal. Thank you! Breakfast and end of day limits for me now.....

Grangegran1 Fri 04-Nov-16 19:56:09

Hi, am new to GN and have not been involved in any forums before. Thoroughly enjoy trawling through the various sections. Feel very heartwarmed by a couple of responses I've had to two forums. It's great to know I'm not a freak and there are others with similar issues. Whether it's me or maybe where I live, people are very reluctant to be real, open up and share things. Glad I've got GN!

shysal Fri 04-Nov-16 21:09:20

Welcome Grangegran1 flowers. I am glad that you are enjoying the threads. Like you I am involved with no other forums and thoroughly enjoy GN.

MeggyMay Sun 06-Nov-16 18:44:19

My first grandson called me Granny Moosmile
We spent happy days going through our fields chatting to our cows.

shysal Mon 07-Nov-16 07:55:19

Hi MeggyMay. My children called their grandmothers Nanny Pig and Nanny Cat for similar reasons!

Peaseblossom Tue 08-Nov-16 12:19:20

I'd hate to be called granny or grandma as it sounds ancient. I'm called nanny and so is the other nanny, followed by our christian name. I think Gransnet sounds ancient too which put me off joining it! Nansnet sounds much better.

Elegran Tue 08-Nov-16 13:08:09

We all call up different images for the different names. I have two lovely grannies, so I like being called granny, but nan and nanny make me think of nanny-goats.

GrannyMac1945 Tue 08-Nov-16 18:25:45

Can anyone tell me why some Usernames appear in blue, l have tried searching for an explanation but no luck. Sorry if I'm being obtuse. Thanks

Marmight Tue 08-Nov-16 18:52:00

Usernames in blue means that we have chosen to make our profile public. See My Profile and My Gransnet at the bottom of the home page

shysal Wed 09-Nov-16 09:12:35

Welcome GrannyMac if you are new flowers. Click on a blue name above a post to see a profile and any photos. I feel uncomfortable about adding photos of myself or family to this public forum, but many do.

GC123 Mon 14-Nov-16 14:41:03

Hi everyone, I'm extremely new to all this so be kind please,
Reasons I joined are sad to me so I'm looking for the forum and found this page to say hi all newbie alert ?

shysal Mon 14-Nov-16 14:52:27

Hi GC123, welcome flowers. I am sorry you have sad reasons for joining. If you feel able to let your feelings out by starting a thread, I am sure you will find support and advice if needed. Please remember that this is a public forum which can be read by anybody, so be careful about names or specifics which may identify you. Here is a (((hug))) if it helps. Take care.

Mamasasq Mon 14-Nov-16 19:56:56

Hi I have been a member on Gransnet for a while but never posted anything until tonight. I'm a wannabe granny. I have 2 sons, one of whom is married & there are rumblings about starting a family - so, fingers crossed.

shysal Tue 15-Nov-16 09:40:12

Hello Mamasasq, welcome flowers. I waited quite a few years to become a grandmother, but then 6 came along in rapid succession (from two daughters). Now you have broken the ice I look forward to seeing your future contributions to GN, enjoy!

Azie09 Tue 15-Nov-16 14:56:47

Hello, I joined a few years ago but didn't really have time to read and never posted. I seem to have found that time now and find many of the threads stimulating and interesting. I don't have grandchildren, I do have a daughter of 31 and twin daughters of 25 so I'm hoping that one day a few GCs will appear. Quite a worrying world for those children though, I do hope we find solutions to the many problems facing the world. Lots of wisdom on here!!

shysal Tue 15-Nov-16 16:25:55

Welcome to Gransnet Azie09 flowers. Now that you have more time to spare it will help to fill waste hours!

Mamasasq Tue 15-Nov-16 19:11:28

Thanks Shysal for your welcome. My husband has just joined a forum about classic cars and he really enjoys it, through commenting & through reading others' comments. So I thought I would try to get more involved in this one. It's a very active forum with some really interesting topics x

Im68Now Wed 16-Nov-16 09:16:45

Why is their adverts for "Dry Nights" on a granny's forum, that's not how you see us is it.