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Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

Welcome to new members

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 16-Sept-15 14:24:57

If you're new to Gransnet please do make yourself a brew and come introduce yourself on this thread. Hope you enjoy chatting in the forums and that you find it useful, informative, supportive and entertaining. smile

shysal Fri 13-Nov-15 20:16:44

Hello mauraann, glad you like the site. I look forward to reading your contributions. flowers

newnana Fri 13-Nov-15 20:30:30

Welcome all newbies. Didn't realise people were usually welcomed. I'm usually so late adding to a thread was feeling paranoid about no further posts. I'm Nana and Grandad's Grandad! The other one was already a Grandma so I didn't have a choice. Really envious of post above - I was not required at all never Monday as a birthing partner!

shysal Fri 13-Nov-15 20:47:28

Hi newnana. I think a lot of us are paranoid about killing threads! grin

Bellsnwhistles Sat 14-Nov-15 09:07:32

Hello! I've been lurking for a few months so it's time I joined in properly. Heck I'm even going to a meet up so only fair that I at introduce myself!

I'm not a granny but live in hope my dcs will meet lovely partners. Ds aged 28 recently introduced us to a lovely girl/woman who just might be 'the one'. Dd aged 23 is living in Australia (my country of birth) and is still somewhat unsettled in life (short term jobs/no partner) taking a while to 'mature' but getting there I her own way.

Dh and I have been married for 35 years. It has mostly been difficult and at times ghastly. About two years ago, thanks to mumsnet, I had a lightbulb moment and realised dh is on the autistic spectrum. It explains so much.
Knowing it is one thing. Now I am trying to find ways of coping with that knowledge. It is tough going. I think we do still have a marriage but it looks (and feels) nothing like a conventional one. I am still grieving for the marriage I envisaged all those years ago.

I am now working as a live- in carer for the elderly. I mostly love it but do get lonely sometimes. But not as lonely as when I was with dh all the time.

MiniMouse Sat 14-Nov-15 09:28:02

Welcome to all the newbies. GN is addictive and brings an end to all the stuff that we should be doing, so start honing your good excuse skills wink

Look forward to meeting you in Dorking next week Bellsnwhistles

shysal Sat 14-Nov-15 09:56:55

Hi Bellsnwhistles, welcome. I see you have progressed from 'the other place', so you will know your way around. I am sorry to read how difficult your marriage is, there will be plenty of support on here if you choose to ask. Enjoy the meet-up.flowers

Bellsnwhistles Sat 14-Nov-15 10:34:17

Many thanks for the warm welcome flowers

grannymary Sat 14-Nov-15 13:11:52

Hi, not a newbie, I have Been lurking for some time enjoying reading the discussion but often finding that others make the same points that I would. I'm enjoying the daily emails and find that I do tend to log on more now because of them. Just need to motivate myself to join in a bit more

shysal Sat 14-Nov-15 17:33:54

Hello, grannymary, welcome. Take it slowly and you will soon be hooked! flowers

rosequartz Sat 14-Nov-15 19:11:46

Yes, welcome and take it slowly - I jumped in with both feet and I sometimes wonder if I should have lurked for a while grin

it's a terrible time-waster though

ninathenana Sun 15-Nov-15 23:51:27

Welcome grannymary there is one of you in my r l family grin

william09 Wed 18-Nov-15 08:37:55

I am new here at posting anyway my password is my dad who I never knew would like some comments on young children coping with father having girlfriend and child and gd mother moving in with boyfriend the father of two if not three children my gd is four my son and girlfriend split when she was two I love her to bits but she seems to be coping with a lot some naughty behavour coming out any thoughts it worries me

shysal Wed 18-Nov-15 08:49:40

Welcome, william09. What a lot your GD has had to cope with, no wonder her behaviour has deteriorated. Young children can be very resilient and more accepting of new parental relationships, I hope this will be the case for her. She is lucky to have a GM as a constant influence.

May I suggest that you start a new thread on this subject, as this one doesn't get many views? I am sure you will then get plenty of helpful comments. flowers

Nelliemoser Wed 18-Nov-15 09:27:04

William09 Welcome! I am sorry but I don't quite follow your post about who exactly has moved in with who. Could you define who is where now? It might relate to the concerns you have for your GD.

Rubyredshoes Wed 18-Nov-15 12:49:00

Hello, another newbie here. It's such a friendly chatty site I had to join. Looking forward to joining everyone posting soon. [ smile]

Bellanonna Wed 18-Nov-15 13:17:48

Rubyredshoes, your name caught my eye as I was scrolling down through various topics. What a lovely name ! Do you like red shoes? I've got a couple of pairs and love mine.
Welcome to Gransnet. It is usually smile friendly and as has oft been said, pretty addictive. Why not post now? No need to wait! Hope to "see" you soon

shysal Wed 18-Nov-15 13:29:18

Welcome*Rubyred*, I look forward to reading your contributions, enjoy! smile

glassortwo Wed 18-Nov-15 13:52:22

Hi to all the newbies to many to mention by name.

Libradi nice to see you back smile been a long time.

Rubyredshoes Wed 18-Nov-15 14:55:26

Hi Bellanonna, yes I do like a pair of red shoes (or three). I've got more confident to wear what I like as I've got older and my red shoes always make me happy. Glad you enjoy yours too.

Thanks for the welcome everyone.

grannyactivist Thu 19-Nov-15 01:08:52

Hello again Libradi. smile

So many new members recently - welcome one and all, but beware........Gransnet eats your time. I'm madly busy with real life, but still like to trawl through posts when I can and often end up doing so at the end of the day when I should be tucked up in bed!!

Ariadne Mon 23-Nov-15 13:33:26

Hello and welcome to you all!

lynneg Tue 24-Nov-15 11:40:00

Re Gran, Granma, Nana, etc. My DIL's mother and I both decided to be Grandma, but unfortunately both are Linda, so I suggested we use our middle names, guess what? Both our middle names are Ann! So now it's just young grandma and old grandma. I'm the old grandma!

lynneg Tue 24-Nov-15 11:42:39

Sorry, just realised that thread was an old one. I only just logged into this although I think I've been reading through threads for a few months. Will take me a while to get the hang of it. Sorry again!

ninathenana Tue 24-Nov-15 12:30:59

lynneg It's an old thread but an on going one. Set up to welcome newbies. So your in the right place. No need to apologise smile

So hello and welcome to GN. Do ask if you need help navigating the site but you will find it all pretty straight forward.

kittylester Tue 24-Nov-15 14:52:27

Crumbs - what a lot of new GNs. Welcome to you all! I've noticed lots of new names on the threads too. wine