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soop Tue 22-Aug-17 16:49:50

Yay!
Here we are again
Happy as can be
All good pals and jolly good company.

Galen Thu 07-Sept-17 11:48:47

What's housework?
Most bladders get retrained if you are patient with them. Think of them as a young kitten and treat appropriately

Pearls packed!

IM READY!

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 11:34:12

Sorry to hear you have been housebound annsixty I hope this afternoon's outing helps.
I had one afternoon out with book club friends while paw was in hospital and a trip to Birmingham to take DGS to The Red Shoes and they were like a shot in the arm.
Simple pleasures and things we take for granted when all is going smoothly sad

annsixty Thu 07-Sept-17 10:34:18

Or something we didn't say?

annsixty Thu 07-Sept-17 10:32:44

Was it something we said Jane?

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 10:24:58

Swanny is there any "essential" housework? grin
Despite being "up" since 7, I am still in my dressing gown, District Nurse arrived at 9 and OT and Physio arrived hot on her heels with a really useful cantilever bedtable for Paw.
Now I really must shower and dress ???

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 10:22:27

Why Jane??

Jane10 Thu 07-Sept-17 10:16:35

Jane10 has left the kitchen.

annsixty Thu 07-Sept-17 10:10:59

So pleased for you both Maw I hope things continue to go without any more traumas.
Let the carers do as much as they can and Paw will get used to them and their ways.
Will you be able to get out at all,even if for just half an hour?
I am currently jousebound and am very low because of it. However a very good friend is coming this afternoon to take me out for an hour and I hope it will charge my batteries for a few days.

Swanny Thu 07-Sept-17 10:06:01

Galen and downsized hope you enjoy a fantastic cruise flowers

Swanny Thu 07-Sept-17 10:02:43

Good news Maw. Now take it steady and don't bother with non-essential housework - it's well-behaved and will wait for another day grin

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 08:46:35

Hattie is very calm about Paw being back. I suppose his "smell" was on "his" armchair and apart from occasional curiosity e.g. about why he has not eaten a biscuit, she seems quite contented.
(At least this way she doesn't get left on her own as much. )

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 08:43:34

That is interesting Bellanonna.
We are hoping Paws bladder can be "retrained" but it is reassuring to hear from others who manage the situation successfully.

How is Rory these days Soop? It would be lovely for him just to fall asleep on his cushion or in his cat cave but rarely seems to happen with old dogs. Slipping away peacefully is what most of us would wish for.

cornergran Thu 07-Sept-17 08:38:55

First night over, mawb, sounds as if you both coped really well. I'd have no idea what to do hmm. Certainly a learning curve ahead. Hope today is a good one. I'm also wondering about Hattie, is she on guard or avoiding paw?

Right, off I go, can't avoid today any longer.

Bellanonna Thu 07-Sept-17 08:31:36

The night bag in a wpb or plastic bowl works for us. The pouch ( in DH's case a permanent one) empties into the larger night bag and in 7 years or so there have been very few accidents and those only when he forgot to push the plastic bit across to close it. Laminate floors became a must.
At the moment you are having go do this because DH is unwell, and I only do it when ditto. Good luck with it all and I hope Paw gets his strength back bit by bit.

What dies Hattie make of having Paw in the house?

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 08:18:32

The "leg" bag is detached from his leg overnight and lies beside him (so as not to constrict the leg) and then the night extension tube runs into another bigger bag which is upright on the floor beside the bed. Fortunately he is not the type to toss and turn! My cunning plan was to prop the night bag in a carrier bag in a waste paper bin (empty) with the advantage that I can carry it in the bag when he goes through to the loo.
So far it has worked and one trip to the loo at 2am was not too bad (I can go considerably more often!!)
It is all a very steep learning curve. I wonder what experience other members might have had? Might start a thread (but CBA) grin

Charleygirl Thu 07-Sept-17 07:27:15

Oh dear, Maw I hope that you manged to get to sleep after your trip to the loo during the night.

The urine bag should not lie on the bed, the urine should be able to flow into it downwards. I am well aware that you will not want safety pins stuck into the bottom sheet but that is really the only way you can attach the bag if a plastic holder has not been supplied. The problem is attaching the holder because Paw is obviously not in a hospital bed. Please ask whoever comes today what can be done about it. The problem is that they will not be trained so may not have a clue.

soop I hope that the little man had a good night's sleep and is enjoying his food.

I was wakened at 6am by Tara- she wanted cuddles and I surfaced an hour later. She has now left the country.

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 02:13:50

I'm afraid he did charleygirl (-no.2 TMI) but I was able to carry the catheter bag for him like some minion for a potentate!!
It sort of lies on the bed beside him then the "night bag" extension sits in a plastic carrier in a wastepaper bin on the floor by the bed! A bit Heath Robinson, but reasonably effective.
Just back to bed now -sleep beckons zzzzzzzz

Galen Wed 06-Sept-17 23:46:06

Glad to hear about the good news from so many of you.
Update from me.
All clothes packed
Still got to pack the pearls!
Main luggage collected tomorrow. I take the pearls on in my grubby little clenched fist ( along with the bottle of champagne and my ticket)
Hope to liaise with downsised re boarding. Hope she enjoys it!

callgirl1 Wed 06-Sept-17 23:26:19

Charleygirl, I`m not sure if the other cat is a tom or not, it`s friendly enough towards me, and I`ve never seen it actually attack Mia, but she does seem scared of it, even though it`s very small and skinny.
Anyway, hopefully all Gransnetters will sleep well tonight.

Charleygirl Wed 06-Sept-17 21:37:19

Maw at least you know that Paw will not have to get up to go to the loo during the night so hopefully all three of you will sleep well. I am well aware of one who definitely will!

I would think that you are stressed out but as you said, at least you do not have that ghastly journey to and from the local.

Please make sure you receive all of the care available to Paw. I hope that he was given a blood transfusion before he was discharged.

callgirl| the fact that the other cat is a tom (I think) is enough to frighten Mia. At least she is indoors now even if she is fighting for her (she thinks) rightful position on the stair lift chair. Thankfully Tara has never bothered about it but she does crawl upstairs step by step some evenings when the fancy takes her and I want to go to bed.

I am so tired I am going to have a shower and then bed to read my book.

Jane10 Wed 06-Sept-17 21:23:13

Just popping in to mention a twitter person called @catreviewer: this person photographs cats s/he meets in the street and gives them marks out of ten on things like 'general friendliness, good stripes, interesting miaow' etc and often adds 'would pat again'. It's just daftness I know. I was happy to see that it's not just me that enjoys meeting random cats in the street. It's never occurred to me to write a review on them though. Think I might start...

cornergran Wed 06-Sept-17 21:22:34

Sleep well mawb. You deserve to

Some adjustments ahead wot but I'm also pleased for you. The future will be good.

Poor. Mia callgirl. I wonder what the other cat does that scares her so. Guess she will be back in the stair,fit, safer there smile

Very full day tomorrow so unlikely to pop in, take care everyone.

wot Wed 06-Sept-17 21:09:34

Hope you get a good nights sleep, maw?

MawBroon Wed 06-Sept-17 21:02:53

Paw tucked up in bed. Thank you tonight's carer I was dreading fixing the catheter night bag (with my hamfistedness it could have been catastrophic!)
Now I am just SO tired, crashing headache - reaction ?stress??
At least I am not driving back from MKH, not sure I would have been safe.

Bellanonna Wed 06-Sept-17 21:02:08

Thank you maw. I needed to enlarge the picture. Delighted for you both!

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