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Note to Self.....

(192 Posts)
illtellhim Tue 29-Aug-17 07:45:56

Today, I will do one thing to help myself.
It doesn't matter how small the step is, as long as it helps me move forward.

lemongrove Mon 11-Sept-17 09:02:17

But what about all the unlovely ones Elegran ? ?

kittylester Mon 11-Sept-17 09:00:05

But, what if Ann only thinks she invented GN? I think I did!

Elegran Mon 11-Sept-17 08:58:50

Maw We could always just leave the fridge door shut - but then we'd never know.

Elegran Mon 11-Sept-17 08:57:14

Don't panic, annsixty, if you invented Gransnet with all these lovely people to chat to, you will never be alone!

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 08:55:33

Just as, Elegran, we may THINK someone is who they say they are.....but who knows if the light is on when the fridge is shut.

annsixty Mon 11-Sept-17 08:54:53

I'm really scared now.?

Elegran Mon 11-Sept-17 08:54:21

It has probably been done already, with Patrick Stewart in the lead. (Lead not led - but maybe . . .)

lemongrove Mon 11-Sept-17 08:53:35

I think that I am about to get the bus into town to look for a new jacket, but in reality I may still be in bed, or indeed, not be at all ( so maybe I shouldn't be wasting my money on buying clothes.)

lemongrove Mon 11-Sept-17 08:51:07

?make a great film wouldn't it? Along the lines of The Matrix, but even weirder.
I type words on Gransnet, therefore I am.
Are you in my dream, or am I in yours?

Elegran Mon 11-Sept-17 08:45:51

Lemongrove Philosophy alert. Do any of us REALLY exist at all? Does ANYBODY OR ANYTHING really exist outside our minds? Is the universe just something constructed in the imagination?

It has to be the imagination of YOU, the person reading this in front of your screen. There is no-one else, nothing else, no earth, no sun, no stars, just a solitary consciousness creating everything and everyone else.

Can you PROVE any different? Your senses tell you that you are sitting in a chair, seeing a room, smelling the flowers, hearing the radio, tasting the coffee, but your senses all operate through your brain. You hear what people say, watch TV, read the papers, learn about the outside world, but what if the same brain is inventing the words and pictures?

Best not to think too hard about it!

MawBroon Mon 11-Sept-17 08:32:20

Oh we all GOT it but I also know how meticulous Elegran is in her use of language. smile
How about this as an illustration of illtellhim's post of 07.45

lemongrove Mon 11-Sept-17 08:32:03

Does this have to be self help or can I post anything??
Because I have been thinking: if I don't post on Gransnet, do I actually exist?

Imperfect27 Mon 11-Sept-17 08:11:57

Yes Elegran - funny! smile

kittylester Mon 11-Sept-17 08:05:49

I got it Elegran grin

Imperfect27 Mon 11-Sept-17 07:52:35

illtellhim, I have cme to admire your persistence! grin

C'mon then Maw ... your turn ... grin

illtellhim Mon 11-Sept-17 07:45:05

Note to Self .....

Be yourself.
People don't have to like you, but you don't have to care.

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 21:56:01

It wasn't wasted, then!

FarNorth Sun 10-Sept-17 21:15:25

Well, I got it all right Elegran smile

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 16:11:55

It would have worked if I had left out the A and told everyone to read it out loud - but I am a compulsively correct speller.

You do need to get the reference to lead in pencils, too. All in all, not a very successful saying.

MawBroon Sun 10-Sept-17 14:59:48

(Only works if you say it Elegran)
"Led" not "lead" grin

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 12:52:21

You can take a horse to the water but a pencil must be lead. (metaphor for "matchmaking for others is not always successful")

FarNorth Sun 10-Sept-17 12:49:53

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it throw stones.

MawBroon Sun 10-Sept-17 08:07:18

Has to be Illtellhim's prerogative
None Cornier, , none more platitudinous grin

illtellhim Sun 10-Sept-17 08:04:19

Note to self :-

It may be hard but hard is not IMPOSSIBLE

Bellanonna Sat 09-Sept-17 20:31:50

illtellhim. Will you start it?