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Note to Self.....

(192 Posts)
illtellhim Tue 29-Aug-17 07:45:56

Today, I will do one thing to help myself.
It doesn't matter how small the step is, as long as it helps me move forward.

FarNorth Sun 24-Sep-17 12:00:50

Don't set things aside for a special occasion.

Being alive is a special occasion!

Elegran Sun 24-Sep-17 09:57:29

You should send these to President Trump - he could tweet them to his loyal followers.

illtellhim Sun 24-Sep-17 08:03:21

Note to self .....

You gotta do this for you.
This is for you.
This isn't about anybody.
Live for you.
Honour you.
Never lose sight of that.

And off I went on my walk.

illtellhim Fri 22-Sep-17 09:51:37

Note to self ....

None of us are getting out of here alive, so please stop treating yourself like an after thought.
Eat the delicious food.
Walk in the sunshine.
Jump in the ocean.
Say the truth that you're carrying in your heart like hidden treasure.
Be silly. Be kind. Be weird.
Theirs no time for anything else.

illtellhim Thu 21-Sep-17 08:21:56

Thank you Cherrytree59, I spent yesterday reading poms by Winifred Emma May, and today I going to honour her memory.

Yesterday's steps you can't retrace, by slowing down or quickening pace, changing course or turning back - You still will be on the same old track. The only change worthwhile you'll find, will be the change of heart and mind - leading and directing you - on to wards that lovely view.

Keep to the rules and bear your load, along the rough and rutted road, on that wayside seat for awhile - gathering strength for that second mile. Keeping an eye on that distance height, that draws you on by day and night - walking tall and walking straight - the better world to create.

Definitely a Note to self.....

Once again Thank You

Cherrytree59 Wed 20-Sep-17 12:13:22

Lemongrove thanks for that reminder smile
My grandpa often bought my Mum a Patience Strong poetry book. Not for Xmas but as a New Year present
I don't remember if there were any thoughts for the day in the books

I may even have one in the loft.
Need to take a look.

Winifred Emma May British poet 1907 to 1990.
As well as a writer she was also a composer with over 100 songs to her credit.
Some recorded by Gracie Fields,
Vera Lynn and Billy Fury no less!

FarNorth Wed 20-Sep-17 10:06:45

So often people say "You'll look back on this and laugh."

Why wait?

Have a good laugh straight away! grin grin

MawBroon Wed 20-Sep-17 10:03:04

Well translated illtellhim
10/10 ?
But I DID say it first.

illtellhim Wed 20-Sep-17 09:45:17

I doubt it.

lemongrove Wed 20-Sep-17 09:14:42

Has somebody just received a Patience Strong Calendar?

MawBroon Wed 20-Sep-17 09:11:50

Je m'en doute hmm

Imperfect27 Wed 20-Sep-17 08:14:44

P.S. When this eventually stops, I think you will miss each other ...

Imperfect27 Wed 20-Sep-17 08:13:55

illtellhim and Maw, thank you for providing my daily morning entertainment ... grin

MawBroon Wed 20-Sep-17 08:11:14

Sometimes there are better things to do with your time

illtellhim Wed 20-Sep-17 07:53:01

Motivated by ........

Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it.
The time will pass any way.

MawBroon Tue 19-Sep-17 07:44:12

Sometimes there are simply too many repetitive adjectives and adverbs though.

illtellhim Tue 19-Sep-17 07:39:00

I must remember that.....

Life is amazing. Then its awful. Then its amazing again.
In between the amazing and the awful its ordinary and mundane and routine.
Breath in the amazing, hold on through the awful, relax and exhale during the ordinary.
That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life.

And it's breathtakingly beautiful

Imperfect27 Mon 18-Sep-17 07:40:23

You have to admire ITH's persistence ...

Note to self:

If something annoys me, but it is of little consequence, has no real impact on the quality of my life and I do not have to deal with it, I can simply avoid it. grin

illtellhim Mon 18-Sep-17 07:24:07

This is for me .......

Life is beautiful but it isn't always easy.
I must learn to take the good with the bad, hang in there and always remember, tomorrow is a brand new day.

Cherrytree59 Sun 17-Sep-17 18:22:18

Note to Illtellhim
Is it not time to stick the calendar quotes in't bin and live your life how you see fit??

MawBroon Sun 17-Sep-17 11:28:05

These are a bit sad * illtellhim* scraping the bottom of the calendar barrel??

illtellhim Sun 17-Sep-17 11:20:50

Old fashion self :-

If you're going to make love to the person you will spend the rest of your life with, do it wearing the safest thing, a wedding ring.

illtellhim Sun 17-Sep-17 11:17:14

Quote to self .....

Life is like sex, you can ether lie back and let it screw you, or you can get on top and ride the hell out of it.

illtellhim Sun 17-Sep-17 08:04:49

Note to self ....

They say the truth will set you free, but what they neglect to mention is what happens when the truth isn't what you want to hear.

Cherrytree59 Sat 16-Sep-17 22:24:45

To Err is Human
To foul up completely requires a computer!