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Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 13-Sept-18 10:53:26

Any new joiners? smile If you've recently signed up to Gransnet or have been around a while but haven't got round to posting anything yet, please pop over to Welcome to Gransnet to introduce yourself and have a virtual cup of cafe or wine.

Lillykatie Sun 28-Apr-19 19:57:25

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Charleygirl5 Sun 28-Apr-19 19:38:17

Welcome- I know some live in SA, Australia, Canada, France and Switzerland if that helps you?

You may be better opening a separate post specifying a country.

Lillykatie Sun 28-Apr-19 19:34:32

Hi on new just joined looking for chat with grandparents living in another country from there children and grandchildren

Charleygirl5 Sun 28-Apr-19 14:53:27

MathaBeck may I suggest you open a different post for this subject because this is not the correct thread. Welcome if you are a newbie.

MarthaBeck Sun 28-Apr-19 12:49:42

I often wonder if Gransnet gets our views out to the public and does it really matter?

Today, I read these comments from a Lady on Twitter.

”Those 50 million citizens who did not vote for Brexit, still have a right to know what this third hand form of Brexit really means and then accept or reject it. For it certainly is not what was portrayed and voted for in 2016.”

It is a very bold statement and made me think about my vote in 2016, and whether Brexit today differ from what was campaigned for in 2016 and were we given all the true facts? I am not sure we were, we certainly know more about the EU today. Therefore, I would welcome a one off legal biding decision from the full UK electorate with no manipulation of the vote.

Your thoughts folks, anybody changed their views?

Charleygirl5 Sun 28-Apr-19 11:09:32

Sorry, that should read "post message".

Charleygirl5 Sun 28-Apr-19 11:08:48

Just add what you want to say in the "add your message here" and press "send". The political post is definitely an acquired taste preferably with a comfortable seat behind the sofa and as I mentioned previously a well-fitting hard hat on.

Some "normal" posts can go the same way, a lot depends on who you have upset!!!

Notjustagran Sun 28-Apr-19 11:07:54

Oops I'm a dumbo, clearly not ready for this chat malarky, I've just seen the box that says type message here smile

Notjustagran Sun 28-Apr-19 11:04:46

Hi have been a member for ages and enjoy reading all the chats but unsure how to get involved, do you just click on the 3 little dots and reply as I have done here.
Not sure I'm ready for the political chat yet though!

crazyH Fri 26-Apr-19 17:01:38

Sasha,
Your story rings a bell....there's a similar post on another thread regarding the OP's sister taking over her GM role . Can't remember who, but it's on one of the GN Forums.
Check out the main Board

Charleygirl5 Fri 26-Apr-19 16:37:11

Welcome Yorkshirelass as you can see we get the odd stray who obviously do not know where they are!

Yorksherlass Fri 26-Apr-19 14:39:52

Hi just joined today, cheered me up already smile

Charleygirl5 Thu 25-Apr-19 17:12:47

Eh?

NannanTo4 Thu 25-Apr-19 16:58:51

Twelve years between me and my DH. Your man needs to grow up. You have done your bit.

Charleygirl5 Thu 25-Apr-19 09:13:02

Yes, Sprout it has.

Sprout Thu 25-Apr-19 09:10:28

Morning just testing to see if this goes through

SirChenjin Tue 23-Apr-19 15:30:30

grin hard hat at the ready!!

Charleygirl5 Tue 23-Apr-19 15:06:44

Good luck SirChenjin You may need a hard hat and a seat behind the sofa- you have been warned!!!!

SirChenjin Tue 23-Apr-19 15:03:34

Thanks Charleygirl5 smile. I'm all for some lively debate so may head over to the political posts and see what's going on! Looking forward to taking part in the discussions and getting to know some of the other posters

Charleygirl5 Tue 23-Apr-19 15:00:37

Welcome Sashal. It may be better to open a different thread for your problem because those who may have an answer would not necessarily read this post. Good luck, sorry I cannot help you.

Sasha1 Tue 23-Apr-19 14:53:50

Hello all.
I am new to gransnet and found it when I went to Canada to see my son who married a Canadian girl and their 3 year old daughter Willow and their 7 year old son Finley. Until they emigrated last Autumn I used to look after the children 2/3 days a week since they weŕe babies. I am heartbroken that they now live on Vancouver Island...9 hour flight then I have to ferry or get small plane to the Island. My sister emigrated there 40 years ago and I have spent years visiting her there. My son is ill with Crohn's disease and was diagnosed with M.E. just before they left England. I am so cross with my sister as she has been very proactive in trying to get my son to live in Canada. I feel she has taken my beloved son and grandchildren away from me and will try to step into my shoes now they live close to her. Tje good grandmother in me thinks tjank goodness my son has some of my family nearby..my sister and her husband..their two children and all her grandchildren but my primitive side is very cross with her. Having just returned home and have two tooth abscesses probably due to flights and stress...I am facing more years ahead having to do that journey...and I am very scared of flying, wish I never have to see my sister recruiting my family again...and lost to know how to cope with this loss. I am 70 this year and this feel very challenging. Does anyone have a similar experience...and any suggestions how to cope?

Charleygirl5 Tue 23-Apr-19 14:42:47

Welcome SirChenjin as previously stated, stay clear of the political posts and you will be fine. There are some very helpful people around covering every subject under the sun.

SirChenjin Tue 23-Apr-19 14:33:42

Hi everyone! I'm new to this site having moved (graduated?) from Mumsnet which I was on for many years before getting thoroughly fed up with the endless sniping. I still lurk there but have been looking for a forum which is a bit kinder with posts that suit my advancing years - although I'm not a grandparent our eldest 2 are now in their twenties, I turned 50 recently, have hit the menopause but I'm not quite in my 'golden years'(!) as our local over-50 clubsought to advertise itself recently grin

Marydoll Sat 20-Apr-19 08:10:37

Welcome Nana
To start a new discussion:
Click on Forums at the top of the page
Choose a category, e.g Chat, Health
Click on your chosen category
Choose Start a new discussion , it's highlighed in yellow
Remember to give it a title.

Good luck!

Nana69 Sat 20-Apr-19 07:58:54

How do I open a separate thread?