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Customer Service

(61 Posts)
Bluesmum Tue 30-Jul-24 10:48:43

JaneJudge

I think people who can't understand accents (of any nature) are lazy and unwilling to listen properly

It is quite easy to communicate with people who can't even speak the same language as you (not over the telephone obviously) if you just have patience

I can assure you Jane I am certainly not lazy nor unwilling to listen and I have been told I have the patience of a saint on many occasions, especially when communicating with my very elderly, very deaf ,late husband who also had dementia! What I am, however, is very elderly myself now and in need of stronger hearing aids I think! I also have a sense of humour, which you seem to have lost!

NotSpaghetti Tue 30-Jul-24 10:27:56

My own personal winge about customer service is not answering the question I've asked.

They always want to tell me things I know - not what I want to know
Argggh!
🤬

NotSpaghetti Tue 30-Jul-24 10:25:37

My mother-in-law has a "older person's helpline" to her bank.
It is always answered quickly by a person not a bot.

Perhaps they are selecting people with a very "easy" voice/pitch to answer it... I've never heard her complain about it. I am sometimes there when she calls them and there's not a lot of "please repeat that" going on.

Can I suggest others ask if their bank has such a phone line.
She seems to always get sorted.

JaneJudge Tue 30-Jul-24 10:04:33

I think people who can't understand accents (of any nature) are lazy and unwilling to listen properly

It is quite easy to communicate with people who can't even speak the same language as you (not over the telephone obviously) if you just have patience

Kim19 Tue 30-Jul-24 10:02:07

I recently had to endure seven minutes of talking to a machine before being connected to a human being. The latter sorted the matter to my complete satisfaction in three minutes. Hallelujah! Incidentally, I did ask if I was talking to a machine and was given affirmative response. All ended well in this case but what a load of mularkey.

Marydoll Tue 30-Jul-24 09:04:59

The older I get, the less perceptive I am! I should have realised, Bluesmum.

The Scottish accent remark did touch a raw nerve. 😉

I hope you managed to resolve your problem. I have managed to reduce my interaction with bank customer service, by installing the App on my tablet. My life has become so much easier.
Howeevr, I do appreciate it takes away a job from someone.

Bluesmum Tue 30-Jul-24 08:48:35

Marydoll I remember those days when I,too, understood every kind of accent, foreign or regional! My post was intended to be a bit tongue in cheek, and certainly not taken so seriously, as i do realise the older I get, the worse the problem becomes!

Marydoll Tue 30-Jul-24 08:35:39

You were obviously very frustrated, but I am afraid I cannot agree with you. That is a very sweeping statement.

I am Scottish, with a Glaswegian accent and a few weeks ago, I had to speak on a number of occasions to a customer service agent with a strong accent in Liverpool.
I had no difficulty understanding her accent, nor she mine. She was helpful, patient and professional.

PamelaJ1 Tue 30-Jul-24 08:26:57

😂😂
You put it so well.

ferry23 Tue 30-Jul-24 08:25:21

Oh yes.

Coupled with the fact that they all seem to have names that come over as completely unintelligible and after you've asked twice, then asked them to spell it, you land up writing down gobbledegook. So it was a waste of time asking in the first place!

Bluesmum Tue 30-Jul-24 08:04:23

I have reached the conclusion that all the staff who work on customer service telephone helplines are trained in special skills, whereby they are taught to talk at triple the usual speed and have to specialise in speaking with the strongest, most difficult to understand, regional accent. The worst part is, the older I get, the better qualified they become in these particular skills. It has got so bad, on a call to my bank yesterday, I simply had to say, I am sorry, could you please speak more clearly and a little slower, as I cannot understand what you are saying, to which the young girl said, quite clearly, and with hardly a trace of her earlier strong Scottish accent, “if you cannot understand me, I suggest you hang up and ring again, then you will get another advisor”.,!!! Being naturally of a cynical nature, I have often wondered if this is the real motivation behind this trend! Is it just me, or does anyone else experience this problem?