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What is in my bedroom!?

(37 Posts)
Aely Wed 11-Jun-25 13:27:25

I have been planting out some Pelargoniums and Fuchsias in my little garden and remembered a pot on my bedroom window ledge. I went into my bedroom and startled something which had been relaxing on my bed. I thought it was one of the many local cats but just caught a glimpse as whatever it was disappeared over the far side of the bed. Going round, I could see two back legs (very skinny and definitely not cat) and a long, almost bare tail with a tuft of long scraggy fur at the end. I think it is a dog. By what I could see it must be in extremely bad shape. I thought maybe fox, but no white tip to tail. My bed cover is filthy!

I have left a bowl of cat food on newpaper. I recently got some "emergency" cat food in as we have a couple of community fed cats, left behind when their owner died, too shy to be caught.

I have left the back door wide open and retreated to the living room. I hope the food will entice my mystery visitor from under the bed and it will get the courage, after a feed, to make its way downstairs and out the (open) back door.

Our local foxes are very healthy, unlike my visitor, and I have never seen those hind legs or tail on any local creature, so I am mystified.

Flakesdayout Thu 12-Jun-25 20:18:14

I feed two foxes every night, they seem to be a pair and now will sit and wait in the shrubs until I lay the food down.. They are both very timid and will wait until I have gone back inside before they come to the food. They have a bowl each of fruit loaf, sausage roll, left over cat food, any kitchen scraps that are 'fox' suitable. I also put out calci worms. I will buy reduced Ham, Chicken pieces, Pasties and such like. I was also feeding the birds and had feeders all over the garden until rats moved in. Now I only have two feeders and a blackbird who will sit and wait for his raisins.

ExaltedWombat Thu 12-Jun-25 20:21:28

>RSPCA info - "It's rare for foxes to come into our homes as they're wary of people.

The animal support lobby tends towards very rose-tinted opinions on foxes. My experience is that they're completely shameless and will explore everywhere and anywhere. And that they terrorise my cat.

Aely Thu 12-Jun-25 22:38:23

I am told that putting the Mange medicine in a jam sandwich works. The cats don't like bread and jam.

I have a feeling that I might end up with another cat, after saying "no more" when my sweet Pepper died 4 years ago. I have now named the visiting "community cat" George. It's up to him as to whether he wishes to move in or not. He is almost certainly a relation of Pepper, who came from the same house. The lady "loved cats", her Queen was constantly pregnant, the offspring were inbred and once they grew out of kittenhood the lady lost interest and it was up to the rest of us to look after them. Pepper chose me.

petra Fri 13-Jun-25 07:50:28

4allweknow

I'd never be finished feeding wildlife. I have deer, foxes,squirrels, rabbits all round. The foxes are quite sneaky but brazen too coming right up to patio doors. I have a squirreltgat looks like a eabbut from behind. His tail is like a large ball of cotton wool at the end. I do feed birds.

My beauty walked in to our lounge. Just stood there looking at me. My partner has fed her by hand.
Now we have a herring gull pecking on the patio door when he wants something 😊

Aveline Fri 13-Jun-25 08:25:50

Lovely to hear all this. From our fourth floor flat we see foxes and quite a lot of deer. I'd love to feed them.
It's interesting to look down on birds flying past. Certainly keeps the cat happy and chattering his teeth!

Maggiemaybe Fri 13-Jun-25 09:34:09

ExaltedWombat

>RSPCA info - "It's rare for foxes to come into our homes as they're wary of people.

The animal support lobby tends towards very rose-tinted opinions on foxes. My experience is that they're completely shameless and will explore everywhere and anywhere. And that they terrorise my cat.

Our lovely young cat staggered through the cat flap one evening and into the front room, blood spraying everywhere over the kitchen and hall like something from a horror film. He collapsed and we wrapped a towel round his neck and rushed him to the emergency vet, which thankfully happened to be our nearest. The vet gave him little chance but after microsurgery on his artery and a week’s observation and recuperation at the vet’s surgery we got him home. We were told it was a very rare fox attack. He was an all black cat and the theory was that they’d surprised each other in the dark.

Aveline Fri 13-Jun-25 09:39:16

How awful Maggiemaybe. Poor puss. Poor startled fox too I suppose.

keepingquiet Fri 13-Jun-25 09:59:31

This reminds me of years ago when we had a cat and it went into the neighbours house, up the stairs and got into her bed.
It terrified her and she couldn't wait to tell me off the next day. I could only see the funny side though- she wasn't the friendliest neighbour!

Aveline Fri 13-Jun-25 10:16:03

Brave cat!

Maggiemaybe Fri 13-Jun-25 15:15:49

Aveline

How awful Maggiemaybe. Poor puss. Poor startled fox too I suppose.

I’m sure! Knowing our Archie, he’d have put up a good fight. smile

Allira Fri 13-Jun-25 15:20:17

Poor cat! At least he lived to tell the tale.