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Newbie on parade

(38 Posts)
ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 15:18:58

Hello everybody. Just signed up and, seemingly rarely, I am male. A quick scout around seems to suggest that us males make up no more than 5-10% of the local population here.

Nevertheless, a big hello from (sunny, today) Devon and Happy New Year to all and sundry. 😊

BoggledMind Tue 17-Feb-26 18:50:24

Thank you Fallingstar.

Fallingstar Tue 17-Feb-26 18:07:32

Same to you BoggledMind

Fallingstar Tue 17-Feb-26 17:20:39

ShihtzuDad, I am a newbie though I spent a while browsing before saying anything, and though I am a woman I also can find it a bit intimidating at times, not to mention confusing.
Don’t worry 😉 we newbies should stick together.

BoggledMind Tue 17-Feb-26 16:49:59

Hello ShihTzuDad, hopefully you're settling in nicely. I'm also new, having just joined.

For what it's worth, I'm another male addition to the site.

ShihTzuDad Thu 01-Jan-26 09:16:46

BlueBelle

You see Shihtzu where woman have always known the value of chewing over problems and sharing happiness and sadness with friends, colleagues, even strangers, men are only just coming round to the idea that the stiff upper lip isn’t really the answer
So I m sure over the years you ll find more males joining in but at the moment you’re a few pioneers

I hope so. I think there are a few grandads on here that have been around for a while but they are so outnumbered by the grandmas they might feel a bit intimidated!! 🤣

BlueBelle Thu 01-Jan-26 09:01:03

You see Shihtzu where woman have always known the value of chewing over problems and sharing happiness and sadness with friends, colleagues, even strangers, men are only just coming round to the idea that the stiff upper lip isn’t really the answer
So I m sure over the years you ll find more males joining in but at the moment you’re a few pioneers

ShihTzuDad Thu 01-Jan-26 08:55:19

Allsorts

You need to open a forum for newbie men, Granddads, as well as joining in the other ones. Welcome. Its nice to get a male in put.

Thanks Allsorts. I might well do that at some point. Happy New Year. 😊

Ashcombe Thu 01-Jan-26 00:04:17

ShihTzuDad

Ashcombe

So, being in Dawlish, you're almost at the other end of the no. 11 bus route from us.

Is the 11 the Dawlish Warren to Torquay bus, or is that the 22. I can't remember. 🤔

The 22 used to be the bus that went through to Dawlish Warren but it has been reduced to running in Torbay and the 11 serves your neck of the woods.

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 21:42:56

Millie22

Welcome 🙂

Many thanks Millie 22. Happy New Year!

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 21:41:33

Mollygo

Welcome as a new member ShihTzuDad regardless of whether you’re a man or not.

Thank you Mollygo and happy new year!

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 21:40:14

pably15

Helo and welcome from me too ShihTzuDad,

Hello and thank you pably15. Happy New Year!

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 21:38:24

Allsorts

You need to open a forum for newbie men, Granddads, as well as joining in the other ones. Welcome. Its nice to get a male in put.

I did notice that there is a forum called 'Grandad's Shed'. It is the least used of any of them, with 69 posts in almost 15 years!!

Millie22 Wed 31-Dec-25 20:02:49

Welcome 🙂

Mollygo Wed 31-Dec-25 19:17:52

Welcome as a new member ShihTzuDad regardless of whether you’re a man or not.

pably15 Wed 31-Dec-25 19:02:11

Helo and welcome from me too ShihTzuDad,

Allsorts Wed 31-Dec-25 18:58:44

You need to open a forum for newbie men, Granddads, as well as joining in the other ones. Welcome. Its nice to get a male in put.

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 18:53:44

Grannydaisy1

Hello shihtzudad and welcome. Im a newbie too

Hello Granny daisy! Nice to meet you and happy new year!

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 18:52:39

Ashcombe

So, being in Dawlish, you're almost at the other end of the no. 11 bus route from us.

Is the 11 the Dawlish Warren to Torquay bus, or is that the 22. I can't remember. 🤔

crazyH Wed 31-Dec-25 18:11:31

Welcome ShihTzuDad

Grannydaisy1 Wed 31-Dec-25 18:08:46

Hello shihtzudad and welcome. Im a newbie too

Ashcombe Wed 31-Dec-25 18:05:41

So, being in Dawlish, you're almost at the other end of the no. 11 bus route from us.

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 18:04:14

kittylester

Welcome, it's good to have another man. Please contribute often - you might encourage others.

I will try to! 👍

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 18:03:12

Fallingstar

Hey I’m something of a newbie myself, did a bit of surfing the different forums and seeing how things work before posting. Am not a man but is good to have some variety.
Let’s hope more men see this and decide to take the plunge.

Thanks. Yes indeed. I am still finding my way around too. 😊

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 18:01:35

grumppa

Welcome! I have four grandchildren by my twin daughters (two each) - three boys and a,girl - ranging in age from 7 to 17. They are hard work at times, but are great fun and a pleasure to be with. We live close together in a suburb of London, so there is lots of mutual support.

Well, you beat me, hands down. I have just the one grandson who was just 5 on the last Saturday (27th). I do agree, they are fun, for sure!

ShihTzuDad Wed 31-Dec-25 17:58:09

Lesley60

Welcome it will be great to have a man’s perspective on some of the things posted on here

Thanks! I do like a good discussion.....