I don't know if this belongs on this thread, but I have just heard from my sister in Canada that she has been diagnosed with Alzheimers. She and BIL and their 3 little chidren emigrated in the 60's when I was still in my teens. We are not close and sadly only email each other infrequently, although we used to ring each other every week. (Long story and I won't bore you with it.) Anyway, she and her DH who had prostate cancer about 10 years ago, and I suspect it has returned, are due to visit Scotland in May. In previous years, I have heard of their annual visit after they were back in Canada - so obviously not all that bothered about meeting up.
However, this year I suspect it may be their last visit, BIL's rellies in the north of Scotland are fewer and fewer, likewise our rellies in the Borders but this time she has given me the dates and I am thinking, this is a hint, even an olive branch maybe? So I am determined to get up there at the same time, health permitting, to see her for what may be the last time.
Alzheimers is not a happy diagnosis and combined with BIL's cancer, I find this a sad outlook