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Hip stuff - again!

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Mishap Fri 12-Sept-14 21:13:14

Op is on Tuesday week. I am looking round my house and thinking about the changes I might need to make in order to manage in the initial few weeks.

I wondered if those of you who have done all this before might have some advice for me please.

The only chairs we have are dining chairs, or low sofas/armchairs. Ought I to try and borrow an upright armchair from somewhere, or did you find ways of coping? Were you asked to keep your feet up when siting down for the few weeks afterwards?

I am wondering if our bed might be a bit low as well.

Did you manage to get up and down stairs when you first went home?

I am also thinking abut my wee GC who are here a lot - I am thinking they might need to stay away initially in order not to jump on me/push me over! Was this a problem for anyone? I will miss them if they are not here!

How long did people need to take painkillers afterwards? I am hopeless on most painkillers - I just fall asleep - and get blocked up to the eyeballs! But I am also a pain wimp!

I am to have a spinal anaesthetic, but also a "light general anaesthetic" - I was quite keen just to have the spinal, but the surgeon says I would get too uncomfortable lying on my side for that length of time. I am hoping that it will be very light, as I vomit for England after GAs (and cannot take the main anti-emetic that is used). I am hoping that the "light GA" equates to a bit of sedation.

As you can see, I am finding things to worry about, so any of you old hands who might have advice would be welcomed with open arms!

tanith Wed 17-Sept-14 15:06:08

janerowena a friend is able to get some help with grabhandles and things to help her stay in her own home , not sure but I think you qualify if you are on certain benefits.. if not you have to pay something towards it.

janerowena Wed 17-Sept-14 18:01:04

No, my friend works part time. No benefits. Unless it is because she is officially an oap?

annodomini Wed 17-Sept-14 19:14:12

I would be surprised if the NHS was fitting grab handles and other aids for your friend janerowena. This is usually a function of Adult Services Dept of the local council. As for the things I needed after the hip op. I wasn't given anything. Adult Services assessed what I needed (on loan) which wasn't much as my neighbour had lent me a grabber, bath seat and loo seat.

nannyfran Wed 17-Sept-14 19:46:16

Can't add much to the excellent advice already given, but want to wish you good luck and hope your op is as successful as mine was. I had both hips done about 15 years ago and the relief of being pain free was life changing.
I was lucky enough to have lots of equipment on loan from the NHS, but things might have changed since then. I still find a stool really useful in the kitchen.
I used to help in the Red Cross medical loans shop and they can be really useful and only ask for a donation for loaned equipment.The have all sorts of useful gadgets.
All the best and good luck.

Mishap Wed 17-Sept-14 23:08:52

Lots of thanks.

I have been to the Red Cross today and brought back a toilet surround and some chair raisers. Then to the hospital for my pre-op appointment, which lasted 2 and a half hours, with very little of that time spent waiting. They were very thorough, except for the doc, who listened to my chest (well the very top bit only - just enough to establish that I have lungs!) and felt one ankle! Money for old rope!

Complication is that I have broken a tooth in half today! - and am seeing the dentist tomorrow. I have been told that it will be necessary for me to have antibiotics to be sure that the tooth does not create a focus of infection to be spread to the hip. I suspect they may have to take it out, as the while of the back section has fallen off. It is such a nuisance as I had tomorrow earmarked to get everything ready for hospital. I am to ring the hospital and let them know what antibiotic I am on. I could have done without this!

OH's PD and ticker far worse the last few days - I am thinking I might ask one of the girls to stay here while I am in hospital.

MariClaire Thu 18-Sept-14 00:07:36

What awful luck for you, Mishap! Doesn't it always seem like complications arise when you really need status quo for a bit? I expect your surgery and recovery will go well, as you have a great attitude and humor. flowers

Mishap Thu 18-Sept-14 07:21:15

Thanks Mari - I seem to have lots of bits of paper and equipment lined up now and hope that this "dental blip" will be solved fairly easily.

OH is more of a problem as both his PD and ticker have been playing up - I may try and arrange for one of the girls to stay here for a few days while I am in hospital, as they do not have room for him to go there. The trouble is that they come as a "job lot" with a pack of noisy (but loveable) children! One problem is that he no longer gets the sensation of thirst and needs reminding to drink!

Still it is good in a way to have him to worry about as it takes my mind off the surgery a bit!

Lona Thu 18-Sept-14 07:59:39

Mishap Nothing is ever easy for you is it, I really wish you'd change your name to Lucky! smile

I hope it all goes well for you, and your OH is ok too flowers

janerowena Thu 18-Sept-14 11:37:59

grin Lona!

Good luck. And also re your OH, I suspect he is worried about you.

I saw my friend last night, I must remember to ask her how she came to be eligible for grab handles. I do wonder if it's because she has no-one living with her, although I suspect we may have to go on a sleepover rota for a while.

Mishap Thu 18-Sept-14 14:51:33

Been to dentist who has removed back of tooth and temporarily packed it. I have an appointment for 8 weeks time after the hip surgery to have it removed completely - what fills the gap I do not know. He said an antibiotic not needed, which was the opposite of what I was told yesterday! Rang the hospital and they talked to the anaesthetist - he says OK without antibiotic. Wouldn't life be easy if professionals did not contradict each other!!? Let us hope that he is right!

OH is not great at all at present - heart unstable and PD worse. I do not need this!! He is very anxious about it all and sits looking sad. here is little that I can do.

HildaW Thu 18-Sept-14 14:57:25

Mishap...dentists do seem to be often in two minds about antibiotics ...
when teeth fall apart....have had this happen to me.
I always forget that the good old fashioned cure of a salt water rinse is excellent at keeping mouth infections at bay. I've got a bit of an erosion/low gum problem that can become the site of an infection from time to time. The dentist recommended an expensive gel to use when it flares up, but good old salt and water always does a better job. The hygienist always swears by it.

Mishap Mon 22-Sept-14 09:53:00

Op is tomorrow - gulp! If nothing else the anticipation is resulting in a good intestinal clear-out! I am first on the list so will get it over with quickly - let's hope the surgeon and the anaesthetist are awake!

I am dreading all the post-op pain and puking and can't wait for that bit to be over with.

Charleygirl Mon 22-Sept-14 10:07:10

All the very, very best for tomorrow. Great that you are first on the list, get it over and done with. Tell the anaesthetist that you puke post operatively and he may be able to sort that out pre op.

The pain following a hip replacement is nothing like after a knee replacement - I think that you will be pleasantly surprised.

Good luck.

tanith Mon 22-Sept-14 10:14:53

Best of luck for tomorrow Mishap I hope all goes well and you are swiftly home again

Galen Mon 22-Sept-14 11:12:46

Keep us posted as to how you get on, and remember we're always here to answe any questions.

Mamie Mon 22-Sept-14 11:33:49

Best of luck tomorrow, Mishap.
(Just think, here in France a trip to the dentist is compulsory before surgery)....

shysal Mon 22-Sept-14 11:36:42

Thinking of you Mishap. flowers

Ariadne Mon 22-Sept-14 11:50:39

You go for it, Mishap! It transformed DH's life. You can take a seat cushion, or even two, from a settee or another chair, and put it in an armchair to raise the height.

Odd about where to get aids etc - at the pre op session with the physios we took along a form on which was recorded measurements - height of bed, loo etc, and then give a prescription for aids which we took along to a shop which provided them all free.

Ariadne Mon 22-Sept-14 11:51:11

Oh, and good luck for tomorrow! flowers

Nelliemoser Mon 22-Sept-14 11:57:39

mishap I hope all goes well for you. flowers

Mishap Tue 23-Sept-14 06:25:03

Early morning and about to go to the hospital. But..........I started with a croaky throat at about 9.30 pm yesterday and I hoped it would go away, but it is still there this morning. I just do not know what to do now. I would have rung them yesterday but it was so late and I did not think there would be anyone around to make a decision. I may try ringing them now.

Sewsilver Tue 23-Sept-14 06:49:45

Good luck today Mishap.

Anya Tue 23-Sept-14 07:27:23

Good luck Mishap flowers

Icyalittle Tue 23-Sept-14 07:34:51

Dear Mishap just sending you lots of good and positive thoughts. These flowers are allowed in your hospital room.

Gagagran Tue 23-Sept-14 07:50:42

Could it be nerves Mishap? Or the start of a cold? Wishing you fortitude with whatever the day may bring anyway. Sending positive vibes and recommend Fishermans' Friends to help the throat! sunshine