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Dementia self referal

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pompa Fri 13-Feb-15 19:48:30

Have any Gner's had experience of talking to their Dtr regarding their own dementia. I am getting increasingly worried that my occasional memory lapses are getting more frequent. I have always had problems with names but never navigation, I find myself not knowing where I am when driving, I have to drive on until I recognise my surroundings.
I am considering going to Dr's, but nervous about the reception I will get.
Only this week, I was taking a flying test and the tester asked me to fly a left hand circuit, I really had to think which was left and right (I ended up flying a figure of eight to cover both options. I was nervous, put my forgetfulness down to that.

Anya Mon 16-Feb-15 13:05:50

Little known fact Merlot but an incentive to keep doing those pelvic floor exercises.

ninathenana Mon 16-Feb-15 13:45:43

There are drugs that can be prescribed to slow the effects and the earlier your diagnosed the more likely they will work.

However , it really depends on which type of dementia you have. Some are untreatable.

kittylester Mon 16-Feb-15 13:47:35

Do pelvic floor exercises help prevent UTIs?

My mum had such a bad UTI that she was unconscious in her flat for 36 hours before we realised and she spent a week in hospital. The confusion lasted longer that the infection and blurred her dementia diagnosis for a while.

Maybe none of this is relevant pompa grin

Anya Mon 16-Feb-15 14:11:17

It's cause and effect. If you have strong pelvic floor muscles it can help control those 'oops' moments. Less of those, the better your bladder control, pushing back onset of incontinence, and all that leads to above.

Kitty perhaps Pompa has problems in that area too. He, presumably, has a bladder, and all the bits leading to and from it.

I'm sure he'll tell us if it's otherwise.

Anya Mon 16-Feb-15 14:12:04

Sadly too late for your mother now Kitty but not for you and us.

kittylester Mon 16-Feb-15 16:59:30

I understood that the main cause of UTIs in later life was tissue thinning and lack of lubrication which is why women suffer more than men.

loopylou Mon 16-Feb-15 17:14:44

Another cause is not drinking enough fluids, which is compounded if you're taking diuretics. UTIs can be low grade, and therefore symptom-free, in many people and generally by the time someone starts feeling poorly the infection may present with confusion
MIL had a very bad one but it wasn't until we realised that she was confused that she agreed to see a doctor. By that point she was pretty unwell - she'd cut back fluids to drinking one cup of tea a day because she hated having to keep going to the loo (she was on diuretics for heart problems)....

pompa Mon 16-Feb-15 17:50:16

How the hell did this thread move from dementia to pelvic floors ??????confused

Loopylou, not drinking enough fluids may well be my problem, will drink more and see if my memory improves, thanks for that tip.

loopylou Mon 16-Feb-15 17:57:55

Lateral/vertical thinking? smile pompa

kittylester Mon 16-Feb-15 19:13:47

Conversations in RL move around pompa why should gn be different? grin

janerowena Mon 16-Feb-15 19:39:43

And at least it shows that you remember what the original reason for starting the thread is - which is more than I can do sometimes!

Anya Mon 16-Feb-15 23:08:40

Pompa exactly what sort of fluids do you intend drinking more of? (Excuse grammar) hmm

annsixty Tue 17-Feb-15 09:49:12

And after all this advice,all the meanderings along the way and our personal experiences,back to the OP,have you decided what to do? From all your postings on this and other threads I don't think you have a problem,but a professional opinion would't go amiss if you and DW are still concerned.