I have had this problem for all my adult life, with all four wisdom teeth deciding to try to make an appearance at some time or other, but it has been such a slow process that even now, at 54, only two of mine are anything like fully erupted. The other two are still only partly exposed.
I find that the soreness/discomfort comes and goes. The problem is that it is almost impossible to clean those teeth properly, through lack of space in the back of the mouth, and that means that infection sets in now and then.
I get the impression that nowadays, wisdom teeth are only removed if there is the risk of a serious problem, so like you, I'm stuck with mine.