It's completely understandable that you didn't ask at the time, you were probably in pieces at the time andI and many other GNs would be the same.
However, if it continues to bother you sometimes then do phone, or even write, so your mind can be put at rest.
AIBU to say that husband was irresponsible?
Early reading v continental custom - teachers’ thoughts sought


But it's not too late. I think your doc would understand.
