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Worried about DGS aged 4

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Luckygirl Thu 07-Apr-16 17:46:48

They were staying with us for 5 days during which time he was unwell. He has gone home now - not far away - and he is still the same. He has no temperature, no diarrhoea, no rash, no general viral malaise - but he is vomiting every day. This started a couple of days before he came to us, so it has been over a week now. He appears perfectly well and is running about and hungry, then he suddenly starts to groan and cry and is sick. Then he falls asleep and continues to be unwell until the next morning when he wakes up as jolly as can be. You think he is better but the come that afternoon the whole cycle starts again.

He was in hospital overnight on Saturday as he was in such distress they feared he might have an intussusception; but the paediatrician came in and said he did not think it was and sent him home.

My DD is trying to get an appointment with the doc for tomorrow.

Has anyone else ever had a child doing this? - he seems perfectly well in the mornings, then everything goes downhill again. He has lost a lot of weight.

Nelliemoser Sat 09-Apr-16 21:06:11

Luckygirl I do hope there is some good news soon. Poor little chap.

Luckygirl Sun 10-Apr-16 17:47:13

Just had a call from my DD and the wee man has got to 5 pm without vomiting! - that is incredible progress and she says, that although he is a very thin, there is a bit of a sparkle in his eye that has been missing for ages and she thinks he may have turned a corner. We don't want to speak too soon as there has been a pattern of being OK for several hours and then relapsing in a big way. But she says that her mother's instinct feels that he is heading in the right direction at last. I've got everything crossed.

They are so hard to read aren't they? - he was worse than ever yesterday and felt too weak to get out of bed and wanted nothing to eat - so we thought he was going downhill. But, it seems that this is what he needed and maybe now he can start to pick up.

Thank you for letting me share my anxieties - it really helps. I have brought up 3 children and have never seen a child looking so ill - and mine had some ghastly bugs in their time.

Elrel Sun 10-Apr-16 17:52:46

So glad for your grandson and family, hoping he continues to improve. You must all be (cautiously) so relieved. x

Imperfect27 Sun 10-Apr-16 18:00:14

Luckygirl I only discovered your thread yesterday, but was so sad to read about your DGS. I am so glad that he is having a better day - poor boy, he has been through so much as have all of you. Let's hope his mum's instinct is right and he is on his way to being better now. xx

Genevieve489 Sun 10-Apr-16 18:09:21

I've been thinking about you and your grandson today and am so pleased that he seems to be getting better. Fingers crossed that he will soon be 100% fit again.

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 10-Apr-16 18:38:52

That's so good lg. Hopefully he's on his way back up.

whitewave Sun 10-Apr-16 18:45:18

Fingers crossed that tomorrow will be good news and he is definitely on the mend. Kids eh! How many extra white hairs have you got lucky

merlotgran Sun 10-Apr-16 18:47:04

Glad you have some better news today, luckygirl

Jalima Sun 10-Apr-16 18:47:33

Fingers crossed he is on the mend.

Perhaps having nothing to eat yesterday has starved the bug and it is going.

When DD had a horrible vomiting bug when she was much younger than your DGS she lost a lot of weight very rapidly but soon regained it when she started eating again.

Jane10 Sun 10-Apr-16 19:18:02

Really hoping this is all over sunshine

harrigran Sun 10-Apr-16 19:18:13

That is good news Luckygirl. When DC had tummy bugs I always starved them for 48 hours, clear fluids only. When I tell the young ones now they think it is cruel to deny the tots food but it does work.

Luckygirl Sun 10-Apr-16 19:57:17

Yes - I used to do that a bit.

But this was not at all like a normal tummy bug - it has been rather strange and he has been in so much pain. Hopefully it is all behind him now.

Deedaa Sun 10-Apr-16 20:41:17

I've got everything crossed Luckygirl the poor little boy has had such a horrible time I do hope he's on the mend now.

whitewave Sun 10-Apr-16 20:55:39

Is the pain megawind do you think a bit like babies get?

Luckygirl Sun 10-Apr-16 21:00:48

Not sure - it always came immediately before the vomiting; and then often went on for several hours afterwards. he was howling in pain and he is usually a tough little fellow. Boy did he worry us!

Lona Sun 10-Apr-16 21:19:44

Hope that he's turned a corner and makes a speedy recovery Lucky

Jalima Sun 10-Apr-16 21:49:17

Don't want to sound like a prophet of doom but I do hope they check him for coeliac disease - DD has had so many years of misery from babyhood onwards (including several visits to hospital) before diagnosis. And it can be so well managed nowadays.

Luckygirl Sun 10-Apr-16 21:52:29

We will all be keeping a very close eye on him to see how he gets on now. He has had a very strange illness that appeared more like an obstruction than a bug and it has been a big puzzle to everyone. We will all be vigilant for the next few weeks to see what happens. Let us hope this is a one-off.

Nana3 Sun 10-Apr-16 22:45:14

Really hoping he continues to improve and has turned that corner, thinking of you.

Cherrytree59 Sun 10-Apr-16 23:01:51

Got fingers and toes crossed for your little GS Luckygirl.
I find it more of a worry being a grandparent as you just have to wait and see.
Hope he will be feeling much better tomorrow and getting up to mischief

Luckygirl Mon 11-Apr-16 10:36:30

He's bouncing around this morning and eating for England - DD thinks he has definitely turned the corner now. He just looks different and has a twinkle in his eye. What a relief! smile

Thank you for all your kind messages - he certainly put us all through it!

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 11-Apr-16 10:39:21

So good! grin sunshine

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 11-Apr-16 10:44:30

That's great news flowers

kittylester Mon 11-Apr-16 11:44:06

Lucky, I've only just spotted all this. I'm sorry not to have added my good wishes but he managed without anyway!! grin

I'm so glad that he is getting better. roastchicken and as much chocolate as he needs. grin

whitewave Mon 11-Apr-16 11:47:46

Yo ho! A splendid day!