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I'm being grumpy.

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rubylady Tue 05-Jul-16 03:31:44

I'm bloody sick of this skin itching thing that comes on late at night and lasts for hours until it goes away even with antihistamines. I'm sick of going to the doctors only to be fobbed off and feel like I have wasted time and energy. I'm sick of trying to work out what is wrong myself. I'm sick of my feet swelling every day and then going down, leaving them very sore. I'm sick of having bad days. I used to have a life, I used to be able to make plans with people, I used to want to socialise. Now I want to hide, sleep when my symptoms let me and not let anyone through the door. Is this part of the menopause? Will all this end sometime? Will I ever get any sort of life back. I know I am a grumbling pain in the rectum, but every day suffering gets me like this. My poor son, living with me like this. I'd want to leave myself at times.

Mumsy Thu 07-Jul-16 19:34:09

thankyou Crafting,

morethan2 Thu 07-Jul-16 20:04:31

Hope your feeling a bit better now rubylady I think I'll just write this year off. It feels as if there's one obstacle after another. (((((Hug)))) from grumpy old me

shysal Thu 07-Jul-16 20:50:11

Ruby, a friend discovered that hand sanitizing gel stops his itching. I dare say it would dry the skin if used too often, but I can understand why the cooling effect would work.
I hope you will be feeling brighter soon. flowers

Jalima Thu 07-Jul-16 20:59:36

Talk of gel got me thinking:

Aloe Vera gel, available from Holland and Barrett and other health food shops could be soothing.

Jalima Thu 07-Jul-16 21:01:35

DD takes probiotics, not the little drinks in a bottle, but the proper probiotics in sachets, also available from H&B and other health food shops.
She doesn't take them daily, but will take them for a few days then not for a while.

rubylady Sat 09-Jul-16 02:51:00

Thank you all again for your kind wishes and comments, I will try the Aloe Vera gel, it should help a bit. I have found the fan a great help though, and I have been getting some sleep for about 4 hours at a time. I do wish I could sleep longer, I feel like a baby, sleep for 4 hours, up for a feed, bathroom and then play for a while and then back in bed! grin

I'm a bit in limbo, waiting for his highness to go to uni in 10 weeks 6 days! Lol. The house has been left where housework is concerned recently, I haven't the motivation to keep on top of it. I do an area and then he comes along and mucks it all up. I might as well not bother. I've just done all the kitchen again but tomorrow he will throw sugar all over and milk and I'm feeling somewhat of a maid. If I tell him it will cause tension and I am just keeping my mouth shut for the time he is here and putting up with it and leaving jobs for now but it really isn't my stlye at all. I can't wait to get it all "bottomed" and sparkly again. And then I can start using my new things I have bought and put out girly bathroom items instead of razors and stubble being all over the shop!