Lollee you're actually spot-on about doctors not touching patients. My dd is a medical student. They learn to make a diagnosis from the history the patient gives them, plus any tests. 90% of the diagnosis is arrived at from those things.
Physical examination isn't often very useful e.g. looking at swollen ankles will not reveal what has caused the swelling. An examination may merely confirm the diagnosis the doctor has arrived at from the patient history.
Watermeadow's doctor is well out of order, though, and another opinion needs to be sought.
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. She had a very serious condition diagnosed at age 71 which was treated without delay. I think it's time for you to see another GP. Don't let anyone make you feel unworthy of medical treatment.