OH has fractured femur - not a good situation

Lucky thinking of you both?

Morning lucky. How are you this morning? How has DH been overnight? ((((Hugs))))

The staff will be working hard for him, so you try to rest. Hugs.

Lucky (((hugs)))

My thoughts are with you Lucky as I go off to bed. Rest as best you can.

Thinking of you, your husband and family tonight lucky, there have been some emotional conversations today and a long night ahead. Trust in the care he is being given and please rest as you feel able. Love to you all.

Oh Luckygirl I'm so sorry to hear what you and your poor DH are going through, such a difficult and worrying time for you

Thinking of you, such a difficult time for everyone.

Luckygirl Thinking of you both.

Thinking of you luckygirl as you go into this long hard night. I’m glad you were able to have those bits of conversation, hard as that must have been for you both.

sending Loving and caring thoughts to you all xx

Oh how hard is all this for you, for you all- I just cannot find the words. Hugs <3

Hold fast* Luckygirl* it may be a long dark night but keep faith in the expertise of those treating him and in the love you have for each other ?

Thank you for updating us Luckygirl. I don't suppose you will rest much tonight and hope you have some reassuring news in the morning.

Such a stressful time for you and your family. Please take care of yourself.

All our thoughts are with you Lucky

Oh Lucky I hope things are a bit better in the morning , so hard to watch such a frail person going through this

Lucky I have nothing I can say to comfort you in this dark time, but you and yours are in my thoughts.

A long night ahead of you Luckygirl. Try to get what rest you can. I assume your daughters are with you or at least nearby.

Long day during which he had his surgery. He deteriorated very suddenly about 4 pm - very low BP, high temp, oxygen levels haywire etc. etc. etc. - but the staff were on to it very quickly indeed . OH was in charge of the choices for treatment - he has signed a DNR declaration - but he chose for the infections to be treated. I have been having to get his meds down and ice cream etc. - but they have now put in a naso-gastric tube so that he can have all his meds without all the hassle of trying to swallow, which he has problems with at the best of times.

He feels that he may not survive all this and has talked about his funeral and the fact that he wants me to be the last person he sees; the sister on the ward is going to ring me straight away if there is a further sudden deterioration. So we just wait and see.

Been thinking about you all as went to visit my brother.
Anno is so right, let others support you as much as possible.

Love and hugs, x jura

Lots of hugs Luckygirl

Sending the best of best wishes to you and OH, Lucky. ??

Lucky I know how you feel. I question myself all the time about did I do enough for my dad and am I doing enough for my mum. I don’t think we ever will feel we do enough. We can only do our best which I am sure you are doing that. Just try and get some rest. I hope the operation goes well.

Love to you and your husband lucky, please don’t pressurise yourself to be any particular way, just be as you are. Hope the surgery outcome is as good as it can be.

Thinking of you, Luckygirl Hope all goes well with your OH's op.