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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

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merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

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Lona Wed 08-May-19 16:14:17

I'm so very sad for you all Merlot, peace and love to you xx

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Day6 Wed 08-May-19 17:59:24

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Kittye Wed 08-May-19 18:13:51

Thinking of you flowersx

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GrannyGravy13 Wed 08-May-19 18:25:52

Thinking of you and your precious family ????

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Day6 Wed 08-May-19 19:48:23

Merlot, just sending caring thoughts your way and to your family at such a dreadfully sad time for you all. Your dear daughter is surrounded by love. flowers

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Fennel Wed 08-May-19 20:32:13

I don't know what to say, can't add to the other posts.
But thinking of you and your family.
xx

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Cherrytree59 Wed 08-May-19 20:40:26

In my thoughts. thanks

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NotAGran55 Wed 08-May-19 21:06:17

Thinking of you all and in my prayers flowers

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Harris27 Wed 08-May-19 21:06:58

Your in my prayers tonight xx

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Greenfinch Wed 08-May-19 21:50:24

Sending loving thoughts to you and all your family.

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jusnoneed Thu 09-May-19 08:00:26

Such a sad time for you all, my friend went through same thing with her 22yr old daughter last year so I know how hard it is to deal with.
My thoughts are with you and the family.

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Allegretto Fri 10-May-19 07:59:09

Thinking of you, Merlot.

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GrannyGravy13 Fri 10-May-19 08:45:13

Remember to take care of yourself Merlot, ?

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Grandmashe43 Fri 10-May-19 10:37:39

Holding your hand with my lovex

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Marmight Fri 10-May-19 11:48:07

Dear, dear Merlot I can only join with everyone else in sending my love and wishing your daughter a peaceful passing and you and the family the strength to cope in the days and weeks ahead

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Luckygirl Fri 10-May-19 13:07:07

Thinking of you all today merlot x

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kathyd Fri 10-May-19 15:40:00

Very sorry merlotgran. So hard for you.

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merlotgran Fri 10-May-19 15:43:32

Thank you all for your kind messages and concern. DD rallied the morning after my last post and the last couple of days have been filled with her care, pain control and emotional support. The hospice staff are wonderful and we have a flat at our disposal where we can grab sleep, shower and prepare meals. We are truly lucky to be so well supported. DD is very sleepy today, the pain medication is constantly being topped up and there is a lot of confusion. In my heart of hearts I want it to be over soon but she's still fighting so we're with her every step of the way.

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annsixty Fri 10-May-19 15:47:21

Kindest and loving thoughts to you all.
We are all so full of compassion for your whole family.
What marvellous support you are receiving, a blessing in itself.

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silverlining48 Fri 10-May-19 16:24:28

Have been thinking of you and your daughter Merlot. I am glad she has rallied a little and you are getting wonderful support, but you walk a hard and painful road. Sending love and sincere sympathy.

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NanKate Fri 10-May-19 16:31:35

I shall I light a candle in church for your DD, you and family tomorrow. How lucky she is surrounded by all who love her.

What a brave DD you have. ?

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Lona Fri 10-May-19 16:39:37

My thoughts are with you all merlot

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kittylester Fri 10-May-19 16:39:45

Just sending love, merlot.

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Alygran Fri 10-May-19 16:44:26

Sending love Merlot for you, your brave DD and family.flowers

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Gonegirl Fri 10-May-19 17:44:16

merlot flowers

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