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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

(522 Posts)
merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

Kittye Sun 19-May-19 09:19:07

Thinking of you and your family x

Harris27 Sun 19-May-19 09:23:21

Oh merlot I am so sorry I can remember this first post and my heart went out to you as it does again may you find strength in each other in these first dark days. I send you my love and heartfelt condolences. Xxx

GrannyIris5 Sun 19-May-19 10:16:35

merlotgran so sorry for you and your family’s loss. Your beautiful daughter is out of pain now. I hope you can find the strength to get through the next few months and support each other. I can’t imagine what you are going through ??

dragonfly46 Sun 19-May-19 10:23:13

So sorry to hear this Merlot. I wish you all strength to cope in the months, years ahead.

Lazigirl Sun 19-May-19 10:25:54

So sorry Merlot. Big hugs to you.

Antonia Sun 19-May-19 10:43:14

I am so sorry to read your post Merlot. I hope you and your family can come to some measure of peace as time passes. Thinking of you all with love. flowers

JoyBloggs Sun 19-May-19 11:01:38

Such very sad news, you and your family are in my thoughts and I hope that memories of all the happy times you have shared are a comfort to you now and in the days and weeks to come.

purplepatch Sun 19-May-19 11:01:57

So very sorry Merlot. Bless you and your family flowers

Shesanana Sun 19-May-19 11:08:22

Sincere condolences Merlot. It’s truly heartbreaking. My thoughts are with you and your family flowers

annodomini Sun 19-May-19 11:40:36

I'm sad for you and your family, merlot. You have all lived through grief for too long. My sympathy and thoughts are with you all. (((hugs))). flowers

annep1 Sun 19-May-19 12:00:29

So very sorry for you all Merlot. [flowers ]

willa45 Sun 19-May-19 12:02:38

Dear Merlot,
Today I stumbled upon your thread and tearfully read every page. I was especially moved by your strength and courage over the last few weeks. Please know that you and your family have all my love, my prayers and my sincere condolences over the enormous loss of your beloved daughter.

whywhywhy Sun 19-May-19 12:06:08

So sorry to hear that you are having to go through all of this. I am sending you much love and hugs. Thinking of you. x

Ionia Sun 19-May-19 12:07:17

Dear Merlot
I am new to the forum and I wanted to offer my sincere wishes for you and your family. I am sorry for your loss x

rafichagran Sun 19-May-19 21:19:27

flowers So very sorry,

Pat1949 Sun 19-May-19 21:28:34

So sad, but comfort yourself knowing that you did your best for her. ??

Anja Sun 19-May-19 21:29:38

Merlot so sad for you flowers

Greenfinch Sun 19-May-19 21:54:50

Thinking of you at this very sad time.

allsortsofbags Sun 19-May-19 22:02:51

Sincere Condolences to you and your family Merlot flowers

luluaugust Sun 19-May-19 22:47:24

So very sorry, thinking of you all flowers

harrigran Sun 19-May-19 22:48:02

So sorry to hear the sad news Merlot, my sincere condolences flowers

Nico97 Sun 19-May-19 23:22:38

So very sorry Merlot Having a daughter myself I cannot begin to imagine the pain and sadness you must be feeling at this time. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family flowers

Allegretto Sun 19-May-19 23:56:52

Sincere sympathy to you and your family, Merlot. You are in my thoughts.

Day6 Mon 20-May-19 12:29:39

Merlot, I am so very sorry to hear your news and send my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family as you grieve the loss of your darling daughter. flowers

Nannylovesshopping Mon 20-May-19 12:51:35

So so sorry for your loss, your beloved daughter is now at peace and in your heart forever.