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Anyone else going STIR CRAZY?

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Pikachu Sun 29-Mar-20 11:44:08

Been a fortnight for us. DH not the best communicator. Managed just about OK when the weather was warmer and could get out in the garden.

Now just about ready to climb the walls. Anyone else at this stage yet?

Nannan2 Mon 30-Mar-20 14:15:07

I might look at FutureLearn nancat.what type of courses are there?

grannybuy Mon 30-Mar-20 14:15:53

For those worried about running out of knitting yarn, it can still be bought online. Try Lovecrafts.

Nannan2 Mon 30-Mar-20 14:20:01

Oh yes,the queues of online shopping are driving me nuts! It took 5hours to do Asda shop.cause it lets you do 20mins but kicks you off again,then you wait nearly an hour to go on again to try finish& by then the slots gone!!& then theres Boots.com.with the 259,000 or more in front of me in the virtual queue....yes you read it correct...confusedgrin

grannybuy Mon 30-Mar-20 14:21:47

For a little cheer, watch Twins play Coldplay on YouTube.

Nannan2 Mon 30-Mar-20 14:21:51

Yes i did that last night Grannybuy,i need to knit a blanket & realise i need much more than i have alreadyhmm

Tillybelle Mon 30-Mar-20 14:23:57

Too much to do and wish I were able to get it done, despite aches and pains but that is not new!

Always been happy on my own. I realise that I am lucky with that. I think maybe it's easier to be on your own than to be with someone who makes life difficult for you. I realise that enforced being together all the time will put great pressure on some relationships. I have returned to supporting online people shut in with a narcissist. That is just torture.

If you are climbing the walls, remember, you are permitted a session of outdoor exercise. Do use it to work off frustrations and to keep healthy.

Good luck everyone! Oooo! I've just had a book delivered - ordered quite some time ago and forgot! Big treat!!

Nannan2 Mon 30-Mar-20 14:27:20

GwenisGreat1,try sign up to delivery saver if theyre still allowing it? I already had it& was going to stop auto renew,but glad if ive lifted it as i can now get a recurring slot each wk if i want it( or skip if not) but ive still to contend with virtual queue& the re-queueing!hmmangry

Laughterlines Mon 30-Mar-20 14:27:23

Never look at the end date.

Just get through today.

A doctor once gave me this advice when I was having some particularly Nasty treatment many moons ago.

Chin up everybody we can do this. Take care of yourselves. X

Nancat Mon 30-Mar-20 14:31:11

Nanan2 My first course was on conservation, the second is understanding Coronavirus. They have all sorts of courses and say they are constantly adding more. You can look at the list on their website. One good thing, unless you want the appropriate certificate at the end, they are all free.

Nannan2 Mon 30-Mar-20 14:32:21

WP- willing partner maybe?

Jani Mon 30-Mar-20 14:37:35

Not yet - but getting fed up with doing household chores now - I used to like it but that’s when we could go out. So I have decided to try and learn Portuguese - have started on the book but it’s going to take me ages because at the moment I can’t get the stupid disc to play to help with pronunciation !!! Can’t ask hubby as he is working in the other room and on a call - why aren’t these things easy !!! So by the time we are allowed out I may know a bit more than I do now - here’s hoping !

Newatthis Mon 30-Mar-20 14:50:15

Not yet - but then I am afraid of heights. I just think of all the unfortunate people out there and there are many, many suffering under extreme conditions (and perhaps violence) in their homes and also suffering loss of a loved one. This makes me thank my lucky stars. Our parents/grandparents were called to fight in the two most horrific wars of all time and we are all testament that they got through it. We've all been asked to say at home and are spending the time taking up our hobbies, reading, many making more contact with their families or simply just watching tv or listening to the radio - I think I can manage!

Newatthis Mon 30-Mar-20 14:56:08

I don't know why but my printer won't print these.

Kim19 Mon 30-Mar-20 15:07:54

I consider myself a decidedly positive person and I found the prospect of twelve weeks isolation bad but not too bad. However, I did hear the female government health spokesperson suggest that the timing might be as much as six months. Confess to finding that thought a bit daunting. Hope it turns out to be speculative and not actual.

Iam64 Mon 30-Mar-20 15:20:06

I'm in the same group as Liz46 who responded at the beginning of this thread, that she's in a high risk group but went for a walk this morning. Another poster responded by asking why she can't stay in. Can't answer for Liz but for myself, I love being outside. I have inflammatory and osteo arthritis, if I don't move, I seize up. Fresh air and keeping walking strengthen my muscles and make me happy. People are keeping the correct distance, stepping away, crossing over as we approach each other, so I will continue to take my state approved daily exercise.

What is driving me up the wall is the inability to register for an on line service from one of our local supermarket chains. I did a supermarket shop two weeks ago, at the 7am vulnerable customer time. It feels like the most risky activity every and I don't want to do it again. I was number 3,490 in the queue to register this morning. Sainsbury's say its working with the government to prioritise vulnerable and older people. Here's hoping that gets sorted before much longer.

patricia1958 Mon 30-Mar-20 15:54:38

I've been at that stage for about 2 weeks and my time should be up 18th june 1st thing I'm going to do is have my hair cut

Patricia59 Mon 30-Mar-20 15:55:47

I am busier than ever. My daughter who is a single Mum moved in with us in order that she can work from our home and we can care for our 3 year old Grandson as his Nursery is closed.

suttonJ Mon 30-Mar-20 15:56:50

'Funny' doing the rounds.....
If I'm in quarantine for 14 weeks, it won't be the virus that kills my husband!

Pikachu Mon 30-Mar-20 16:21:23

So glad there are others out there feeling as I do. A couple of you really nailed how I feel!

I have lots of hobbies. I devour books, I’ve written two myself and into a third, I play the piano and am currently teaching myself Chipin’s Nocturne in E flat major, I have planted vegetables seeds indoors and just waiting for warmer weather to plant out in the veg patch I’ve created in my garden, I cook and I clean, I do scrabble online and sudoku, I groom my dogs, I’ve signed up for GN, but it’s all getting a bit samey, and I miss my family and grandchildren popping around, meeting up with friends, the banter, the hugs....and now DH is playing his tuba and I don’t mind that but he’s practising Christmas Carols.

Rant over. The Chase will soon be on, then the news and I can find out more about the Coronavirus than I want to know.

Finally, very sad to read of those on here who have personally lost someone in this epidemic.

Pat123 Mon 30-Mar-20 16:21:32

No, I love this quiet time with no pressure on me to go out, see friends, go to classes etc. I think it'll last for a long period, and apart from the horrible fear of illness, life was far too hectic for everyone with constant checking of social media etc

willa45 Mon 30-Mar-20 16:22:40

We've been in (initially self imposed) isolation since February 29. Our entire area is now under mandatory quarantine and confinement IS beginning to wear thin, despite all the TV shows, crocheting, books, puzzles and movies. Even though we have a garden and our walks etc., weather has been miserable for the last three days and today holds little promise. We are both becoming increasingly irritable and boredom seems to set in more often than not.

I'm also having trouble sleeping. I'm often awake between 3 and 5 am just thinking anxiously, then I fall asleep again until 9. Other times, I get up early and I feel better. At present, I'm avoiding all but one news cast and trying to come up with a (time consuming, home improvement?) project that DH and I can do together and distract each other.

Pikachu Mon 30-Mar-20 16:24:54

willa yes, the weather does make a difference.

glammagran Mon 30-Mar-20 16:27:23

I am ok with DH most but definitely not all of the time. As he’s over 70 and has health issues he has forced me into lockdown too as he doesn’t want to bring virus home. Haven’t left the house for a fortnight. No fresh food left but DD is going to a farm shop tomorrow to see what she can get.

What is getting to me more than anything is not seeing our 19 month old DGD. We have seen her 2-3 times a week since she was born and we have a very close bond. 4 of the 5 other grandchildren live abroad. It physically hurts not seeing her.

Barmeyoldbat Mon 30-Mar-20 16:36:25

At times I get fed up as I can't go as far as I want when I am outside. Inside, well the house seems to be cleaner and stays more organised, so not to do there. I am reading, doing a jigsaw puzzle and a bit of knitting but none hold my interest for long.

Greta8 Mon 30-Mar-20 16:53:36

I've got loads of interests and hobbies but am finding this really hard. Since we moved to be near my daughter and baby grandson I've been used to seeing them loads, as she is still on maternity leave. I find Facetime absolutely no substitute for seeing them. I miss my cuddles so much with my grandson. I completely understand why the lockdown is necessary, but despite telling myself how lucky we are that we are actually near now - I'm feeling quite low at times. Shall be glad when my plug plants are delivered, that will give me focus. Difficult times.