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Sleep Week - post to win prizes! ?

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 15-Mar-21 09:14:00

- Are you constantly exhausted from a bad night’s sleep? ?
- Find yourself waking up during the night and unable to get back to sleep?
- Do you hit a wall during the day, and resort to sugar or caffeine to keep you going?
- And let’s not mention your partner’s snoring… grin

If any of this rings a bell, then we want you to join Gransnet’s first Sleep Week!

We’re going to be drawing on the wisdom of 350,000 monthly users to talk about sleep - what causes a bad night, how to sleep better, and what to do if you find yourself wide awake in the wee hours.

Are you a hesitant poster? Or a new joiner? Love reading our threads but have never actually posted yourself? Say hello on this thread. Tell us what you like about Gransnet and join our warm and wonderful community. This is a great opportunity to join in, not least because we have a number of fabulous prizes up for grabs, just for joining in the fun!

What are the prizes, you ask? WELL <drumroll> we have an assortment of glorious goodies including:
- a luxury spa day for two,
- a limited edition dress from Bombshell worth £269,
- a This Is Silk pure silk pillowcase and eye mask,
- a Curious Rose pure wool microwave wheat bag and matching knitted bed-socks,
- and a fabulous book bundle from Quercus!

Please head to our Sleep Week page for more information, including how to win and the T&Cs.

Posting is quick and easy - but if you have any questions, head over to our handy ‘getting started’ guide. This week we will also be running tips on how to get the most out of the site - and if you can't yet tell your DIL from your SIL, here's a handy guide to Gransnet abbreviations and acronyms.

So welcome all. Don't be shy! Do post!

We’ll be posting sleep-related threads for you to take part in every day this week (although you’re very welcome to start your own too). All winners will be announced on Won Anything thread on Mon 22nd March so make sure you’re receiving our newsletter to stay in the loop.

And if you enjoy the site but haven't yet joined (it's totally free), you can do so here.

Happy posting!

GNHQ

Happyhound Tue 16-Mar-21 14:54:37

Really looking forward to reading these threads, as my sleep patterns have changed recently and I’m struggling to get back on track. This is so timely!

angiejackson Tue 16-Mar-21 15:06:18

I get to sleep fine but there are times when I wake up and I start thinking about things and then can't switch off.

jooley40 Tue 16-Mar-21 15:38:37

I always sleep right through the night. My secret is I always read before I go to sleep. I find it relaxing and I drift off after 20 mins reading. I enjoy a thriller or crime story. Works for me.

Amberone Tue 16-Mar-21 15:53:49

I rarely wake up not feeling tired. I have noticed that if I am in bed by 10.00 I can drop off quite quickly and get about 4 hours before I wake up again. The later I go to bed the more difficult it is to get off to sleep. I do occasionally sleep through the night and wake up between 5.00 and 6.00. More often than not I am awake for a couple of hours during the night then wake again closer to 7.00. I seem to sleep better when I am hydrated and try to drink 2-3 pints of water everyday.

Andyboy190 Tue 16-Mar-21 16:10:04

Fresh air , and healthy evening meal dark quiet room gives you a good nights sleep

Gransie Tue 16-Mar-21 16:43:40

Ah sleep perfect sleep. 2 Weetabix before bed are as good as a sleeping tablet for me!

lizzie111 Tue 16-Mar-21 17:27:47

I usually drop ok but do wind down before bed and apply some nice smelling moisturiser before bed the issue mainly is I wake early as my back aches or need the loo probably need a new mattress also wake feeling tired but after putting up with hubby's snoring for years he informed me I am snoring very loudly (now he knows how it feels I mutter under my breath lol)
Anyway I tried anti snore strips and they worked and wake up less tired

jeanio Tue 16-Mar-21 20:07:18

I always go to bed at midnight , sometimes I drop off ok and other times it takes ages to get to sleep and then my snoring,I have naval problems, keeps my husband awake. I can't win.

blue25 Tue 16-Mar-21 21:02:38

I find it hard to get off to sleep. I tend to worry and stress about things which doesn’t help. Listening to an audiobook to distract me can help sometimes.

Revolucion Tue 16-Mar-21 21:11:27

I find HRT amazing for sleep, I usually get 6 hours uninterrupted sometime times more. If I forget to take the tablet one night I will be up in the night at least once if not three times.

My bf told me she needs to get up to pee during the night now, I told her she doesn’t it’s her hormones that wake her up - she started HRT and no longer wakes in the night to pee.

grannyactivist Tue 16-Mar-21 22:07:17

For the past few weeks I have been afraid someone I know would attempt suicide so I have not been sleeping well due to anxiety. My fears were realised and the person survived and is now getting help.

wendybiv Tue 16-Mar-21 22:28:19

I have sleep problems since the first lockdown due to anxiety. My business closed due to covid causing poor sleep most nights and waking up very early each morning. I try not to let it worry me, as this just makes it worse and it becomes a vicious circle!!

sueholistic Tue 16-Mar-21 23:20:12

Most nights I sleep for a couple of hours than wake up and can't get back to sleep. A nightmare.

Taylor46id Wed 17-Mar-21 00:48:18

I don’t sleep well at all I’m just about managing 4 hours a night lately ? I’ve tried everything from warm baths, hot chocolate even an eye mask and pillow sprays my brain just doesn’t want to shut down until 3:00 in the morning most days then when I do finally drop off I wake up around 7 in the morning feeling absolutely exhausted ?

19panda Wed 17-Mar-21 05:10:27

Sleep! As a nurse I thought I knew everything I needed to know on this subject but this last year was something else! I am trying to keep a dream diary which seems to help with some of the worst scenarios.

glenka Wed 17-Mar-21 08:25:56

I don't sleep very well at all. I get about 4 hours sleep a night at the most. I have to much on my mind at the moment so this doesn't help.

Kaggi60 Wed 17-Mar-21 11:59:47

I always used to sleep a lot but now I have trouble sleeping I did have covid and went to sleep in my tea because I was exhausted. One day I had gone 48 hrs without sleep to look after my Mother in Law because she had Alzheimers she since has died in a care home. My husband wonders why i fall asleep in the afternoon for a hour because I feel really tired. I have tried drinking hot milk and all sorts but none avail.

luckyrose62 Wed 17-Mar-21 12:52:21

I drop off easily...I wake 4-5 o’clock with worries and events of the past. I am training myself to still my mind by breathing and focusing on present and future not reliving past events not easy but I have managed to get back to sleep easier ?

tashcat90 Wed 17-Mar-21 13:02:30

I wake up with back ache and get to a point of being exhausted before getting a good nights sleep

crusosa Wed 17-Mar-21 13:26:58

I sleep well most of the nights, but sometimes I'm simply not tired at all, and cant sleep. I learnt to do something else, like reading or waking up and doing something that doesnt require a lot of energy/thought, until I start feeling sleepy.
What normally helps is practicing some mindfulness meditation in bed and walking or doing other physical activities during the day.

muffin Wed 17-Mar-21 14:04:29

Was having terrible insomnia up till a few months ago, taking hours to drop off then up at 3am to go to the loo, then someone on one of the threads on here said they bought Phenergan tablets from the chemist, my doctor wouldn't give me any more zopliocone, and i didn't want to get addicted anyway, i tried the Phenergan and it worked like a dream, 8 hours solid sleep, i cut them into 4, still get my 8 hours , its wonderful, i also use Land of Nod Lavender on my wrists, i found it in the pound shop, i'm sure this helps too, I'm a carer to my husband with parkinsons so I need my sleep, i know it's not ideal to take Phergan long term but i am taking a very small dose now.

Lunchtimelady1 Wed 17-Mar-21 14:16:53

My sleep has been very disturbed for some months now. Put it down to death of a brother in the autumn( late cancer diagnosis) and subsequent grief and stress of trying to sort his estate. Add a 91yr old flat bound mother with increasing needs and you’ve laid the groundwork for broken nights whilst your brain tries to process different options/solutions.
Worrying about not sleeping only makes things worse so I just try to lay there quietly, dozing if possible.

DocM Wed 17-Mar-21 16:34:10

My top sleep tip - sleep in a doubt bed on your own...no snoring, no stealing of the covers...

bobble5366 Wed 17-Mar-21 17:49:45

I am so glad I am not on my own with an erratic 3 and 4 hour sleep pattern - I have tried everything, lavender oil on my pillow, ear plugs, CBD, (a cheeky g and t), nothing seems to work long term.
I just use CBD oil and deep breathing to drop off - but not deep enough - I am wide awake again in 3 hours.

freesia Wed 17-Mar-21 17:50:24

I always attributed my poor sleep pattern to a very stressful job. However, even now i am retired I struggle to get to sleep or stay asleep, and am usually awake by 5am. Maybe it's just years of habit!