You also asked about living with someone with depression. It’s very difficult but it’s not down to you, it comes from inside the individual.
The biggest thing is getting them to the GP and getting some help, which has happened for you. Unless you have been depressed it’s very difficult to understand all the feelings involved. Remember that 25% of the population is known to have episodes of some mental difficulty. Try not to worry as this won’t help either of you. Just be there to give cuddles and hugs (depending on their need) and being a good listener helps a lot.
I wish you both all the best. Well done for living through this difficult time ?
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