Hi Leonora2
Thanks for your reply. Here are some thoughts and suggestions, based on what you've said, and bearing in mind that I've not taken your history:
- only have massage if you're feeling well eg not sickening for a cold. Personal experience has taught me that massage isn't good if I'm feeling even a little 'off colour'
- ask the MT to avoid your neck & shoulders, or only use light effleurage strokes
- I often used heat treatment to soften connective tissue before massage. This may be helpful for your neck & shoulders. The MT should be able to detect your level of tension by palpating the area and/or by observing your posture.
- low back pain may have a knock-on effect through the body if you're tense from the pain. We tend to 'hold' ourselves in a protective position to guard against making pain worse.
It may be helpful to do a 'body scan' through the day to see if you can detect your pattern of tension; if you find any tension eg your shoulders are elevated towards your ears, then consciously relax the area
- if your MT massages your neck & shoulders when you're supine (face up), it's likely you'll be asked to turn your head to the left and the right. This enables the MT to massage and stretch muscles that support your head and neck. Turning should be done with caution, especially if you have an arthritic condition, and slowly. I was always extremely careful with older clients - it'd be unusual not to have some degeneration of the spine over 50
- after massage, turn on your side and slowly sit up. Have a drink of water as soon as possible. Try to have a relaxing time after massage, although keeping moving is a good idea eg a gentle walk. Your lymhatic system doesn't have a pump, as with the circulatory system, and muscle contraction assists the movement of lymph around your body. It is likely that massage breaks down lactic acid which may be trapped between muscle fibres.
- tense muscles generally feel sore when massaged - some people describe it as a 'good hurt' meaning that you feel it's benefitting you. From what you say about the massage on your neck & shoulders it wasn't a good hurt. I'd urge anyone to ask the MT to stop if this is your experience. It's your body and your feedback is important to the MT and for your well-being
- you say the MT uses coconut oil, which is the base or carrier oil, but not if essential oils are added. Ask that just a carrier oil is used and no essential oils in case you're having a reaction to them
If you're able to get on the floor, and up again, you may find the following link helpful. Start with 5 minutes and work up to 15 or 20 minutes. I think it's most helpful to practise during the evening as gravity has been depressing your spine though the day:
alexandertechnique.co.uk/learning-it/semi-supine
I hope these ideas help!