Hello Hipsters and friends
Thank you so much for your replies and kind messages.
Laine, no I definitely don’t have a headache or fever - it’s all muscular.
And no, paracetamol wouldn’t touch it. I’m taking Tramodol and occasionally oramorph.
I have hardly used my crutches at all. For the first week, I used a walker to go to and fro the loo at night.
I had to take the dog to the vets and used my crutches then (second week) and that’s it.
I was walking unaided pretty much from the off.
I’m not really surprised that I’ve got further pain and mobility problems - I was in a terrible state prior to the op.
I was pretty much housebound for two years.
I couldn’t walk round a supermarket or anything like that.
Towards the end I could barely stand up.
Travels yes, let’s have a jolly good moan together 
I’m sorry that you are feeling so rough, I’m sure that you’ll feel much, much better in just a couple of weeks.
I do hope that you managed to have a decent night.
Re showering - I usually just had a wash at the sink (while almost flooding the bathroom) and I also got some massive baby wipe things which really do make you feel 100% clean. They are marvellous. I’ll find out what they are called and get back to you.
Silverlining re your surgeon and the ‘body shaming’. Have you considered complaining?
Have you seen my thread about my complaint about a nurse?
I’ll do a link.
Callistemon thank you. I’m going to phone the hospital today and see if I can speak to somebody about the pain and mobility problems. I’m incredibly stiff today.
Thank you all again 
