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Thinning Hair

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LRavenscroft Mon 12-Dec-22 17:58:27

As I am post menopause I find that my hair is thinning at quite a rate and has become limp so I need a really good cut. My grandmother lost a lot of hair yet my mum had thick hair in old age. A small problem in the great scheme of things but wondered how other Grandnetters dealt with their hair. Thank you.

Whitewavemark2 Mon 12-Dec-22 18:14:55

My mothers hair was very thin when she died, but that was 101.

My hair certainly got a lot thinner after the menopause, but this summer I was quite poorly with covid followed by flu and my hair thinned considerably then and hasn’t grown back. Now I’m wondering what to do as I get progressively hairless😮😮

rubysong Mon 12-Dec-22 21:35:21

I have lost quite a bit of hair since the menopause and have been diagnosed with post menopausal frontal fibrosing alopecia. I now have a fringe to cover the receding hairline and my very fine hair is quite long since the lockdowns. I often wear it up or in a French roll with a bit of padding.

Melanie61 Mon 12-Dec-22 21:52:05

Try a little black caster oil massaged into your scalp every night. It works brilliantly. Made my hair thicker. I put a bit on my eyelashes too, they grew a lot thicker and longer

MerylStreep Mon 12-Dec-22 22:13:35

I’m seeing a Tricologist privately. She explained clearly what was happening. She told my Dr I needed a blood test. She assured me I would not loose my hair.

This is who I see.
Yhttps://www.ukhairconsultants.com/my-front-page/about-eva/clinics/

J52 Mon 12-Dec-22 22:18:12

I take collagen, it’s safe and has made a difference over a year or so.

MayBee70 Mon 12-Dec-22 22:27:10

I wish that someone would manufacture something that was a sort of cross between a wig and a hat. My thin hair ( it’s always been thin but it’s really thin now). I used to tie it with scrunches then bands. Then I found I was winding the band round more and more times, then it was a childrens band. Wigs make me itch horribly and in summer they’re far too hot. I’ve got two and I’ve never worn one in public. I wish I could find something like those African braids that have beads etc in them. Maybe I wouldn’t have the courage to wear one of those either! I’ve got several of those hair bands but I think they’re more for younger people. And woolly ones, which I do wear. I joined a Facebook group about thinning hair but they got mad with me because I said how demoralising it was and it seems I was supposed to be upbeat about it. Which I’m not.

Kate1949 Mon 12-Dec-22 22:38:19

There are lots of threads on GN about thinning hair. Sorry I don't know how to do links. It's not a small problem when you've lost it all like me. It's life changing. I hope something helps you.

Kate1949 Mon 12-Dec-22 23:00:13

Maybe Why would anyone be upbeat about it? It's horrible.

Kate1949 Mon 12-Dec-22 23:00:42

Maybee

crazyH Mon 12-Dec-22 23:35:30

OP -I suffered from Alopaecia Areata (bald patches). Eventually, it grew back. But due to ageing, my hair is not as thick as it used to be. Thickening shampoos do help.
Maybe I don’t know why the FB group got mad at you. By ‘upbeat’ they probably wanted you to feel more confident in yourself, regardless of your thinning hair.
I think J52’s suggestion of Collagen is a good idea.

biglouis Mon 12-Dec-22 23:59:32

Ive had long hair since my 20s and mine is down to my waist and still quite thick. I normally wear it up in a bun. Having arthritis its a pain to wash it and Ive considered shaving it all off and wearing a wig.

AussieGran59 Tue 13-Dec-22 04:51:21

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FannyCornforth Tue 13-Dec-22 04:57:34

Mine fell out due to a Vitamin D deficiency. It’s much better now. I had to have a very high loading dose prescribed

Biglouis why don’t you just have a bob or a short haircut?
Shaving it off and wearing a wig sounds rather drastic

FannyCornforth Tue 13-Dec-22 04:59:27

Hats with hair are a thing
www.headcovers.com/wigs/hats-with-hair/

Whitewavemark2 Tue 13-Dec-22 06:15:16

What is the best sort of wig? Has anyone got any ideas etc?

foxie48 Tue 13-Dec-22 09:37:06

My hair was coming out in handfuls in 2020, thankfully my hair has always been very thick but it isn't now! I've got a topper which i wear when I want to feel my best. it's made by Jean Renau, is very lightweight and comfortable to wear. No-one knows I am wearing it unless I tell them. I also use Wow powder, it helps to conceal your scalp if it's become noticeable and I also use it on partings to conceal grey regrowth as I colour my hair. It's not sticky like other products I've used and although it seems pricey it does last for ages.

Oldbat1 Tue 13-Dec-22 11:13:34

Under active thyroid can be a reason. If possible ask practice nurse to run blood tests. My thyroid and also Vit D were very low.

Poppyred Tue 13-Dec-22 11:23:58

I found hair building fibres a godsend. You can buy them in all colours and absolutely restored my confidence.

MissAdventure Tue 13-Dec-22 11:47:38

I was just going to suggest a topper to whitewave.
It's the colour I can't match with my own, which is a nuisance, but I shall persevere until I ruin my toppers and chuck them away I manage to get a match.

CountessFosco Tue 13-Dec-22 12:06:50

Eat Millet Flakes each day with joghurt and honey. NB it's quite disgusting on its own, but a Swiss hairdresser told me about this remedy many years ago. Very thin, fine hair, so it has helped.

Whitewavemark2 Tue 13-Dec-22 12:11:12

So how do you get a match?

dragonfly46 Tue 13-Dec-22 12:13:14

I used to have curly grey hair pre chemo. Now it is blond, thin and straight with a receding hairline. My oncologist just shrugged it off saying it was due to the medication I am on!
I used Champo serum on the front of my head and fine hairs are now growing there.
It is, however, very expensive.

MissAdventure Tue 13-Dec-22 12:16:53

Well, I think buying one in person, in a shop would help. (Mine came from amazon!)

From what I can gather, it's a process rather like cooking up a witches brew for me, as my toppers aren't real hair.

The real hair ones can be dyed, or anything else you'd do to your own hair.

MayBee70 Tue 13-Dec-22 12:23:46

dragonfly46

I used to have curly grey hair pre chemo. Now it is blond, thin and straight with a receding hairline. My oncologist just shrugged it off saying it was due to the medication I am on!
I used Champo serum on the front of my head and fine hairs are now growing there.
It is, however, very expensive.

I saw that advertised on Facebook the other day. I’ll look at it again. I once read that a mixture of certain oils was as good as anything you can buy but I can’t remember what they were. And it was a bit messy to put on. Regaine mousse is very thickening but, like most thickening products is very drying also.