discoqueen
Think I'm kind of becoming that old lady!
I live alone and have looming health problems with no social support. It's scary.
I looked into retirement communities and tbh there is nothing. So plan is to get a cleaner if needed.
I was so ill over New Year that I was genuinely frightened. I've had pneumonia alone when younger, but worked, so someone would miss me.
I don't phone randomly phone the doc when off colour but was both very frightened and aware of being infectious at New Year.
Also had friends, who apparently had the same thing out partying in spite of the sniffles, in their words. Plus far worse health problems.
All of whom have family support. So I get it. That feeling of being alone, disbelieved, worthless and vulnerable.
And I'm also guilty of making my very damanding neighbour feel like this.
I have enough self esteem and fear tbh to fight if very ill, regardless of what other people, who haven't visited, think.
That's sad - move to Marlborough, there are so many places for the elderly in supported housing there's nothing left for anyone else! Honestly, there are dozens of complexes here, with new flyers coming round regularly for new ones being built.


