During menopause I developed terrible sleep habits, barely being asleep for longer than 20 minutes at a time. On a good night I achieved around 3 hours total. I went a bit doolally, and would fall asleep in a instant during the day, the most alarming incident being with a veg knife in my hand, pointing upwards.
That prompted me to do something about it.
I now shower every night, put on a clean nightie, get into a bed with a sheet and cover, with another over my feet if it’s cold. I watch something really boring on TV for a while, whilst dosed with lavender oil. I then lay down and if I don’t immediately fall asleep, in my mind I walk around a known supermarket, doing my groceries. I never get very far! I wake one/two times in the night and have perfected the art not fully waking up. It drives my husband wild as he wakes and lays there tapping his chest, as if that’ll help him get back to sleep.
It’s about convincing yourself the routine works. It does for me.
Presently I’m sleeping in another bed due to my leg being a plaster, now a brace. With a light duvet as sheets won’t work with the bulk on my leg. I still follow the same routine and it does work.