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No medical treatment after 75?

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pen50 Fri 27-Jan-23 13:59:54

A 65-year old American oncologist, Ezekiel Emanuel, has recently said that he will refuse all forms of medical treatment after age 75, even antibiotics. His reasoning is that any extension of life achieved is likely to be of poor quality, and that a bout of pneumonia (with palliative care) is probably the kindest way to go, both for the person and for their family.

I'm 66, and, as I know I carry an Alzheimer's gene (not a guarantee of dementia but people on my mother's side of the family have tended to develop the disease in their eighties), this certainly resonates. Maybe not antibiotics, but I'm pretty sure I'll refuse late life cancer treatment or any major surgery. I know of a severely demented woman having a pacemaker implanted at the age of 92. What?!! Needless to say she was dead within months.

What do other Gransnetters think?

Grantanow Mon 13-Feb-23 09:21:39

I'm sure if the government were to cut off medical treatment for the over-75s there would be designated exceptions for the Royals, all Lords and MPs and their families and other 'elite' persons.

choughdancer Mon 13-Feb-23 12:27:09

It's worth reading this: www.thetimes.co.uk/article/zeke-emanuel-why-i-want-to-die-at-75-death-5fwmr99h5

He isn't suggesting that all 75 year olds should not be allowed to have treatment as far as I can see. He's saying that it is HIS choice for himself.

It makes a lot of sense to me.
I didn't meet my ex-husband's grandmother until after she had had a major stroke. Apparently she had been the life and soul of everything, outspoken with her opinions, a real character.
When I met her she couldn't speak and was confined to bed in a care home/hospital. She went on living like this for nearly twenty years, gradually becoming unable to recognise her family, completely bedbound and dependent. Every time she stopped eating (which I believe is common a little while before death), she was intravenously fed and hydrated; this happened many times, and also had other 'life-saving' medication.
This poor lady was trapped in her body, without being able to say how she felt, what she wanted, even to express her love for her family. This was a long time ago; late 70s - 80s, but it horrifies me still.

On the other hand, my mother is 100, still reasonably fit, compos mentis apart from her short term memory, and still enjoying life.

I won't have that length of healthy life, and I would make a choice similar to the oncologist's, probably not based on age, but on when I start to feel I don't want to live.