HarlemShuffle
You asked for advice and shared experiences (not a diagnosis) . I recognise all you describe. In fact you’ve probably been worried for quite a while but now the symptoms are worsening. DH is exactly the same.
He won’t drive anywhere except locally. Thank goodness. He stops at green lights and I have to shout STOP if he approaches a red light too fast because he’s gone through them before. Then he gets aggressive and says he was going to stop anyway. Like hell he was
He cannot process information or instructions except in tiny bite sizes. Like you I have to repeat things again and again. I used to say that I’d just told him that but given it up.
It’s a myriad of little day-to-day things that he cannot process.
And then there’s the ‘I’m always right!’ even in the face of evidence to the contrary eg. we backed out of our drive and workmen we’re repairing potholes at one end of our road. A big lorry blocking that way out. Stupidly I suggested that he should drive out the other end but no, he drives up to the lorry and tries to squeeze past. He can’t of course, and they can’t move. Big argument that he had no chance of winning.
He really ought not to drive but try telling him that.
People forget that dementia (like you I saw his mother go through this exactly the same) can cause personality changes.
I’ve spoken to his GP (who’s pretty useless anyway) and he asked a few questions and said there’s no problem. Hope yours is more astute.
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