GagaJo
My poor brother (younger than me) has had his health decimated by long covid. Heart failure. He's very lucky to be senior in his company so they have done everything they can to enable him to continue working. Working from home. Provided everything he needed to be able to do that. Given him flexible hours. Working part-time. But still, he's being forced to give up work very early due to it. But of course, Long Covid is a big skive, isn't it? Just a way to get out of working.
As for those on here talking about generations of families that haven't worked...
I taught in Northumberland for 10 years. Whole communities decimated by Thatcher and the Tories. So yes, generations of families out of work. And it's tragic to watch. Bright, sharp, clever students in my class. Destined to either leave their families/homes/culture or end up unemployed because there is no work here. And then on top of it, the wealthy of the country call those families scroungers, playing the system.
If you're going to b*tch about the unemployed from the comfort of your detached home, your warm house, with a full stomach and a glass of wine in hand while you browse the net looking for your next foreign holiday or for your new car, perhaps you could look at who you vote for and blame them, rather than their victims.
Well said, Gagajo. This thread has been largely a very depressing read for me. DH and I were on benefits for about 3 years when the DC were small because of devastating illness affecting us both. A range of support from the Welfare State, which still existed under Mrs Thatcher before she started dismantling it, eventually enabled me train in a health and care profession and return to work as the breadwinner while DH ran the home. Nevertheless, despite genuine illness, I used to feel guilty if someone saw me buying a packet of biscuits and I worried people might say we shouldn't have the family cat while we were ill. Since we have both been ill for over a year with Covid followed by the constantly coughing and debilitating virus, I find I have lost my confidence completely and have met up with none of my friends socially during since February last year and everyone in our small extended family of 10 has been seriously ill over the past 4 years. In my youth I worked hard developing and supporting voluntary services locally whilst unemployed but have offered my community no help at all during the pandemic. I have felt utterly overwhelmed by the state of the world in general and am only now beginning to move forward slowly again. None of us know what others are going through.....