Daughter has emergency brain surgery....advice

So very sorry to hear your news, thoughts with you all

Bertha I have no experience of this, but send loving thoughts and wishes for a speedy recovery for your daughter.
And of course you’ll be worried, you’re her mother and that’s what mothers do

Goodness, what a shock.
Can only add that I have two friends who have had this. Both had a couple of months taking things very easy afterwards with afternoon naps as a standard part of the day. They have both recovered and are now fit and well.
I really hope your daughter recovers well and you are able to get some rest too. Best wishes to you both.

Sending good wishes.💐

Thinking of you, BigBertha1, 🙏

So sorry to read this. No wonder you feel overwhelmed. It’s positive she’s had surgery, I hope her recovery is good. Look after yourself

Good wishes here as well for your daughter's recovery BigBertha it must be such
a worrying time for you all

Sending a hug - I hope the surgery was successful and that she is on the road to recovery, which as you will know can be a bit slow. But good that they caught it in time for surgery.

Same happened to by husband.He was operated on and twenty five years later as good as new.Wishing the same for your daughter.Thoughts and prayers to you both.🌹

Wishing you the very best outcome 💐

Dear Bertha, I am so very sorry to hear of your daughters's surgery and pray that she is recovering well today. I can fully understand your terror as you have medical knowledge and an understanding of what is happening.
In 2005 I had a subarachnoid haemorrhage which fortunately healed naturally without surgery and I was able to return to normal life; I was in a ward surrounded by people of all ages recovering from surgery.
Hope you have reassuring news today.

The only advice I can give Bertha is to hold the line. This was my mantra when dh had open heart surgery and I had to stop myself feeling the worse. Hopefully your daughter will come through this ok and you will have better news today. Take care

Bertha, we know where but let Dragonfly and I have some dates and times when you can see how things are.

Isn't gn great. I wish it had been around when it happened to DS1.

So sorry to hear about your daughter. There’s no wonder you can’t think straight, it’s only to be expected. Thinking about you.

Sending all good wishes

Wishing your daughter and you all the best for a happy outcome BigBertha. 🤞🤞💐

Sending my best wishes, Bertha and hope you soon have some reassuring news of your daughter.

No experience, but couldn’t pass without wishing your daughter and family the best outcome following her operation. X

My son had the same thing two years ago aged 43. Luckily he was able to phone us before becoming extremely unwell. Thanks to the wonderful NHS he had an operation to fix the bleed and had a wire inserted into his brain to keep the relevant artery clear. He’s never looked back although gets headaches which are being dealt with by GP. I wish you and your daughter well. x

Wishing you all the best.
Apparently breathing in for 4 counts and then out for 6 helps relax the nervous system.
Hope it helps with the stress you must be feeling.

Sending your daughter,you, and your family best wishes.

So sorry to hear this Bertha sending all best wishes to your DD. Can I join you and kitty for tea and cake?

Very best wishes from me too. At least she's known about and has been operated on. Stay strong. She'll need you as will the rest of the family. You'll know more soon. It's the uncertainty that's so stressful somehow.

BigBertha1 another sending every good wish for your daughter's recovery and for you the mental and physical strength to cope with it.

The NHS is at its best when dealing with emergency problems like this, so your daughter will be getting the best of treatment.

I had a subarachnoid aneurism in my late 20s ,I'm 71 now ,it was a long recovery but back then it was a major operation, I believe now it is done through an artery, still serious but she'll be OK