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Denture misery causing major depression

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crazyH Mon 08-Jan-24 14:13:02

And as Notsphaghetti says, I’m sure your Dentist has seen worse. So, don’t worry.

LovesBach Mon 08-Jan-24 14:12:28

I don't have a similar problem Debbi, but wanted to say that you shouldn't feel shame and embarassment - if your current dentist has made you feel this way, then shame on him, and you clearly need a fresh start with a better, kinder dentist. Ignore horror stories - they make the news, but the thousands of people who have uneventful experiences don't. I wish you well. x

crazyH Mon 08-Jan-24 14:11:03

I have a Dentist phobia, to the point where , anxiety kicks in days before my appointment. I don’t have the best teeth in the world. My previous dentists have been awful and rude. I have now gone private and have a lovely lady. She does not overcharge. I told her if I had her years ago, I would have had a full and better set of teeth.
Don’t be embarrassed - my friend has hardly got any teeth left due to some health condition. But she goes regularly to her NHS Dentist in order to maintain the health of her remaining teeth. She wears a denture and looks really good.

NotSpaghetti Mon 08-Jan-24 14:02:03

I have not been in that terrible place Debbi but suggest you speak yo your new dentist before you go and try to explain how afraid you are.
They will probably be used to terrible teeth just now - as well as people suffering because of them.

Thinking of you.
You have been proactive and the good news is it can not get worse.
flowers

Debbidoo44 Mon 08-Jan-24 13:54:37

Hello folks,
Currently need some support as no-one else to talk to.
I am needing some extraction of teeth on the bottom, right at the front. this partial denture will have to go right next to a cantilver bridge (right next to the free floating tooth on that bridge) Also, the gum on one of the front teeth has receded really badly and looks awful. I am suffering really bad depression as I should have got this sorted some while ago.
The reason I have not done that is because I have been struggling with the NHS dentist that I currently have ( the practice I have been with for years has been taken over by new people) I am unable to converse with him because he shows no empathy whatsoever & is quite rude.

I recently managed to find another NHS dentist and waiting for an appointment in 2 weeks time. I now have to deal with the shame and embarrasment all over again, and they may also find more things wrong as the other teeth are not great either.

I am sure that feeling this level of anxiety and fear is not normal or rational? fear of dealing with others in public, fear of not being able to deal with it & have read so many horror stories of NHS dentures and partials. I simply cannot afford private.

I am really looking for support and to ask if anyone has been through similar, if you could share your experience and possibly calm some of my fears. Thank you