I worked for Ann Summers for over 10 yrs, started off as a party organiser , then climbed the ranks to area manager. So there is not much I do not know about sex toys. Nowadays they are rechargeable, which is amazing. Batteries always run out at the most inappropriate moment, and wired ones which plug in are cumbersome and limit positions and distance from plug socket. I also have arthritis in my hands, and fibromyalgia, so my hand strength is limited. I recommend the magic wand style as they have many settings and can make wave pulses, and adjust strength of vibration according to how you like it. I will send a link to the one I have, which is also waterproof, so brilliant for keeping it clean, comes with a zip pouch storage case like a giant pencil case so it can be discreetly hidden in a drawer. It lasts ages on one charge, and Love Honey are a fantastic company, mega fast delivery and loads of special offers and discount codes. I highly recommend them. If you need any info please contact me, here is my fave one : - www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/magic-wand-vibrators/p/lovehoney-desire-luxury-rechargeable-wand-vibrator/a47069g84469.html