Black Dogs 28

Hi all
HVDY- be careful pushing the wheelchair- they can be awkward can’t they. Bit dodgy if you punch your Bro though!! Much as sometimes you could let rip!!🤣
Soft play sounds nice - I,ve never been to one. I can imagine LG on her little chubby legs just diving in.
Hope DiL gets something soon - its not easy is it.
SweetPeaSue- I think a lot of youngsters will end up with glasses in the future as they spend so much time looking at screens. I love how GGS looks in them though- he’s quite serious anyway.
You are doing well with your clear out- is your DH like mine and will say something may come in handy when it hasn’t been used in 20 years!!!
So sorry he had another angina attack while out- it must be very unnerving. Glad the spray did its work well though.
Nadateturbe- yes those telephone check ups are ridiculous. One year the follow up letter said he was seen!!
As the AF is 24/7 it does indeed make me very tired as my heart is having to work too hard. But it’s better than living in fear of an attack like when it was paroxysmal.
We are both very sad for our friends but helping as much as we can- they have some very good friends thank goodness.
Never ever say you feel stupid you cope with everything thrown at you and are an example to us all.
Doodle- it’s such a pain- literally- to have that troublesome hip.
I can’t remember did you have a previous injury? I do hope the physio can help you with it.
Yes my friends situation is the saddest thing I,ve ever encountered- like a nightmare.
Sorry you didn’t feel so good yesterday- maybe you’re right- perhaps a nice bit of cake would help😀
EllieAnne-GGD you,ve sorted out your Inbox. Hope your weekend isn’t being too stressful.
Allsorts- Oh those dark days - when the worries and uncertainties magnify.
It must be horrible having a difficult neighbour. Is there any chance you could do as Wyllow plans and move to a retirement flat and they do all the moving stuff? Moving in later life is a huge undertaking and would feel daunting for anyone. It’s upsetting isn’t it when fears and worries grow out of proportion when years ago we would have just dealt with things. Please come in here and talk - there’s always someone to listen and share a problem with.
Wyllow- so pleased to hear from you.
Your meds routine sounds perfectly straightforward and sensible. I suppose they have to stick to rules but a doctor should see the sense in how you work and could act accordingly. No wonder you had a bit of a melt down.
I,m glad you,ll see your Sis- she must have been worried about you. Any chance of your nice Quaker friend or lovely cleaner being able to bring you stuff?
Hope you get a better night and can relax a bit. Sending you a big hugx

Love to all - hope those we haven’t seen lately are all ok.

The physical treatment is good. The isolation room (I don’t need it, bit it was free) is a mixed blessing, its totally quiet, but sort of hermetically sealed, lonely as I dont have visitors. But the nurses are mostly lovely with time for quick natter. A couple more than others, when you take an interest.

But….It been a real nightmare - for one reason only : my MH meds at night. Which are complex, and my style of taking them, agreed with my psychiatrist for so very very long.

doesnt work for them.

Basically I have 3 doses of meds a day and take them around the same time but then it suits best.

But if I am having a very bad night and have gone early to bed then I frequently take the morning meds in the night to give me much needed sleep.
So’s to get better in the day.

I broke down in to he end last night after 2 nights arguing during the night and told all of recent events and why I feel suididal in the night and need that extra bit of sleep.but still had to wait a long time/and talked to nurses today to talk to a doctor to get some leeway tonight

Should see one.

(Last night nurse was lovely, I said you’ve got MH in the family have you (the vital test is when you say you have had some suicidal thoughts That they dont flinch - but take as normal (which is is in MH circiles after all to kist talk about it no fear involved)

No Doodle no family friends nearby my sis is coming Thursday to see when new nephew good timing for me but no one to get stuff for me in hospital or visit.

EllieAnne oh my it’s good you have said that abut your inbox! I had tried to send one or two bits and bobs to your inboxes on gransnet and it sits worse so I assumed you had chosen not to get messages

Allsorts I feel full of sympathy for your house concerns. Honestly, I would find it is hard to find all those folks tripping round. Then that gap “will it or wont it” You are certainly not alone there. I do have a cleaner who will make things hunky dory for visitors, but my plan does save the “waiting gap” anxiety”
Because I planned a bit ago (then put off) my ultimate plan of ….McCarthy and Stone flats, they do it all for you - the sale, the moving, the flat purchase/ your house sale.

I hope the sprays keep being effective, Sweetpeasue

I hope peoples today go as well as they might, sorry not to mention all.

Allsorts This cold dark weather doesnt help does it, especially if you're feeling so low and your stuck with poor neighbours. We wished we'd moved yrs ago but like HVDY just dont feel we could face it now. Is it your son would like you to live nearer to him? I can understand you not wanting to face moving - I hope you have some friends where you live though as that would make a difference. Might be an idea to weigh up all the pros and cons if you're really not happy where you are. Im sorry you're feeling so low - everything feels like an impossible fete when you are at your worst. Do come in whenever you feel bad- we mightnt be able to do much about your situation but sometimes it helps to know someone cares. Warm hug coming your way.x

Doodle

*HVDY*. That really made me laugh. I didn’t see that typo. 🤣🤣

Me too 😁

Doodle There have been many times when my brother deserved a punch, but I'll stick to pushing him

HVDY. That really made me laugh. I didn’t see that typo. 🤣🤣

SweetpeaSue It must be worrying for you, but I'm glad the spray makes adifference.

EllieAnne Sent you a message about another thread.

Allsorts Moving house is a massive thing to do. I'm 66 and couldn't stand the idea of all that it entails. What does your neighbour do that is so bad? Could you talk to them about it?

Not doing a lot today, might see Son1 though. Hope everyone has a decent day x

Read through all your posts as i do, Sorry Wyllow is so poorly but hopefully home soon.
Scaredy Cat, these check up on the phone are a joke, they wanted my friend to have her Asthma check up on the phone.
Another very dark day yesterday, I get so low I can’t cope. Everything seems bigger and nastier. I have worried myself sick for years about moving as my son wants me to, if I had my time again i would just have stayed out and made my house more comfortable, at the moment I have a neighbour from hell. The thought of solicitors and people walking round my home and possibly a sale not going through fills me with panic.
It wouldn't have bothered me years ago but now it does,

Nadateturbe Please don't concern yourself- you are really not stupid at all in any way.
HVDY The angina spray helps to dilate the arteries which certainly helps. We have been told if 2 sprays don't help then ring 999 as could be heart attack. After first spray today he wasnt helped enough but drove home and took second spray at home and returned to comfortable condition.

I wasn’t able to get messages to my inbox so I contacted gransnet and it turned out it was because there is a space in my username. It used to be allowed but now it isn’t. They have taken the space out and the problem is solved. Worth knowing.

Hello Sweetpeasue thank you for thinking of me, I hopeyour DH has recovered from the angina attack. Such a worry for you both. . I haven't forgotten you, or Doodle 😊 I've been trying to say hello to everyone. I started a post today, But it takes me so long. I feel so stupid sometimes.
Hopefully chat to you both tomorrow.
Love to everyone , hope you have a peaceful night.xx

nadateturbe Glad you made it to your art class. Hope today has been better for you.
Wyllow3 Hope you're getting on ok. What's the food like?m I found it very good when I was in hospital.
SweetpeaSue Does the angina spray help your husband?
Doodle It's good that your pain isn't bad enough for you to need painkillers. Do you need a new mattress, do you think? The physio exercises should help. I've never punched anyone in a wheelchair , but I walk better if I'm pushing something. My SIL will go back to the home, perhaps mid-week.

Had LG, took her to a softplay place. She went on the equipment and slides meant for over 4 years, but loved it. DH went in there with her. DIL said the job she went for wouldn't be suitable, so she's still looking for something. I did aqua aerobics, then spent an hour on the 'phone with a friend.

Wyllow I’m so sorry. I hope you’re ok. Glad you’ve got a. Room and ensuite. Is your sister with you? Hope things are a bit better tonight.
Sweetpeasue funny enough I remember when my dad bought a stereo radiogram. My mum wasn’t too pleased either.
HVdY I’m not on painkillers. I can manage but I’m not walking properly I’m limping and shuffling along. My hip is painful at tonight but only when I turn over. I’m hoping the physio helps.
Scaredycat your poor friend must be struggling. So glad you can help her. Lovely your GGS loves reading. Always such a good thing.
HVDY your brother is so lucky to have you. Punching someone in a wheelchair is not easy. Is your SIL going back to the home soon do you think?
nadateturbe pleased you’re able to pop in now and then. Good to hear from you. You too Ellie Anne
I wasn’t feeling too good this morning so missed my walk. Feeling better now but wondering if trying to eat more healthy foods isn’t good for me. 🤣

Hi Nadateturbe So glad you made it to art - you must look so forward to that and seeing friends. Hope today hasn't been too bad for you after the exertion of going.
Wyllow Thinking of you and hoping you're feeling a little better 💕.

Hope everyone has had a reasonable day.
Had a bit more of a clear out at home. We went out to buy my step- granddaughter a birthday present for next week and DH had another angina attack. Such a worry.
Wishing all a peaceful night in mind and body.x

Wyllow3 sending love and hope you are comfortable. x

Scaredycat I can't believe your husbands checkup is on the telephone. Ridiculous. I think it should always be the patients choice. You can't interact properly or tell how someone feels on a telephone. Sad how things have changed. But I hope his checkup is OK.
It's lovely to see your family so much but as you say the young ones can be a bit exhausting.
I didn't realise you suffered a lot from tiredness. I've missed that somehow. Is it connected to the AF?. Yes, sometimes we "miss the old me", unfortunately. And have to try to be thankful for the good times. Not always easy.
It's great your GGS (can't believe you've a 12 year old GGS!) loves reading. A lot of children don't know what they're missing. One of my GS asked for a Waterstones voucher for Christmas.
Ah, your poor dear friend. What a very sad situation for her and her dear husband. Just dreadful. I'm sure you're glad to be there for her, even if it tires you.

Thinking of everyone.
Wyllow I hope you are being well looked after and feel better soon.

Good GP appointment Sweetpeasue. Talk more soon.x

Sorry I haven't managed to chat to everyone yet. I made it to art but it's used up my energy. Hope you are all OK.x

Oh, Wyllow3 you poor thing. I'm sorry you're so ill. sending massive hugs. They will take good care of you in the hospital. . And the antibiotics will soon have you feeling better. xx

Scaredycat My DGS had trouble preading whiteboard and teacher picked up on it. He now has glasses and its no problem. Hes 10.
HVDY Hope your DIL has a good interview. Enjoy LG tomorrow.

ScaredyCat My SIL wouldn't know if she normally lives there or not, or whether she's been there a day or a month (she's been in a week). I'll go with my brother on Sunday to see her - it's a long walk from the entrance to the ward, which he wouldn't manage, so I'll push him in a wheelchair, as I did last Sunday. It's still raining here, too. A lot of children wear glasses now, and there are some trendy ones around. When Son2's girls were at primary school, they went through a phase of wearing toy specs with no lens in, as they wanted to wear glasses .

Hope everyone has a restful night. LG here for a short time tomorrow morning - DIL has got a job interview. Night all x

Hi all
SweetPeaSue- oh somebody at last who listened,understood and was as nice as she was efficient. Thank goodness. Your DH must have had an overwhelming feeling of relief to be listened to .
HVDY- you and SweetPeaSue could have some valuable discs there. Beatles music will always be popular.
What a nice meal at the day centre- I love puddings with custard.
Poor SiL I hope she’s not too scared in a different place.
Doodle- we are just pleased to be able to help our friend. She is very weak and low. Her DH is on end of life care so she has the trauma of this as well as her own illness and the punishing treatment. It’s still raining as well!!!
My eldest GGC will be a teenager in the Summer- her brother has glasses now and he looks so nice in them. He couldn’t believe how much better he can see now! He’s an avid reader .
Wyllow- Hope you’re comfortable now and able to get some sleep. So good to have an en-suite too- all organised I,m sure.
Night night.

Love to all

SweetpeaSue I had steroid injections in my heel, for Plantar Fasciitis, years ago, when every other treatment didn't help. My mum liked Queen and Abba as well. Dad enjoyed listening to country and western music.

Doodle How ridiculous of them to offer you a telephone appointment. Glad you'll be properly seen soon. Are you on any painkillers? Shame the art class wasn't so good.

8Wyllow3* Glad you're somewhere safe, comfortable, and that you'll be getting the correct treatment.

HVDY That steroid injection is worth asking about- I know its not 100% guaranteed to work but I had 1 in my shoulder some yrs ago and it was brilliant. Oh jam sponge n custard, lovely.
Doodle Oh dear, covered in charcoal, bet that was the devil to wash off. Sounds funny ( sorry) but sure it wasnt.
Glad you stuck out for the F2F physio session- whatever next physio by telephone. Some of my LPs were my mum's-- Jim Reeves and Val Doonican . 'Iove you because' (Jim Reeves) was my mum's first record .Shed just bought one of those huge record cabinets . I remember running down the road to meet my dad from work and telling him mum had got it. He didnt seem to pleased.😂
Oh Wyllow You sound so poorly. I'm so sorry. They'll look after you in there and its good you're in a special infection ward. Just rest and the antibiotics should soon do their magic. Love and another 🫂. Xx